TOPIC: Taking the PMMA plunge

Hey, every fraction of an Inch adds up. Keep adding those fractions and they turn into real length.
Keep your head up!

Yea. I don't think this group is overly concerned about using any specific measurement method. As long as you're consistent it should provide a proper baseline. The only reason using a standardized method would matter is for stats analyses. And. That might happen as some people get really into it hahha. But. For you, I'm super glad to see the increase! I can't tell you how thrilling and addicting it can become. You actually probably know considering you injured yourself, actually.

@DWD

One has to wonder if her openly insinuating the size of her past lovers was just a mind game more than anything else. I mean, she'd have had to be pretty promiscuous to deal with men notably larger than you at this present moment.

Don't take this the wrong way, but if size is a conversation in your relationship, it will become a problem in your relationship. The mistake was even bringing it up, let alone contemplating a future procedure. It gives her leverage (hence her comments, which may be exaggerated or even untrue), and it drives you mad. Didn't you experience something similar to this with your past relationship? The problem here lies in your willingness to showcase your insecurity, and the obvious solution is to rid of your insecurity once and for all. Good luck, and pardon the tough love.

Heavy. But good advice I think.

Skeptical One wrote: @DWD

One has to wonder if her openly insinuating the size of her past lovers was just a mind game more than anything else. I mean, she'd have had to be pretty promiscuous to deal with men notably larger than you at this present moment.

Don't take this the wrong way, but if size is a conversation in your relationship, it will become a problem in your relationship. The mistake was even bringing it up, let alone contemplating a future procedure. It gives her leverage (hence her comments, which may be exaggerated or even untrue), and it drives you mad. Didn't you experience something similar to this with your past relationship? The problem here lies in your willingness to showcase your insecurity, and the obvious solution is to rid of your insecurity once and for all. Good luck, and pardon the tough love.

Completely agree SO.

Never bring up penis size in a relationship., especially if it's an insecurity. Lots of women will undoubtedly use such an insecurity as a stealthy (or blatant) weapon for control in the relationship.
And never bring up last lovers and their size or how good they were in bed...This never works out the way you hope it would....Never.

Unfortunately SO, yes, she is THAT experienced. When you have a sample size in the hundreds, especially picking up bar guys with the confidence to approach, that is a lot of big boys. I just can't stomach it. Maybe I'm a huge pussy, but it's eating my lunch. I just tried to break up with her but I ran out of time, had to come back to work, but I think this is it tonight.

Much like you suggested SO, I went into this having had massive success with lots of women, all who were extremely impressed by my size. When she didn't have that reaction, and did things like say, "you have really nice arms. Too bad you can't exercise your Dick" as well as sticking her vibrator in right alongside of me, I was rattled. She almost always gets off, and I genuinely believe that she's satisfied with me, but I want to be more than just fine. I hate that I really don't even rank in her experience, and I don't care how uncomfortable she says all the bigger ones were (unsolicited comment), how the hell am I supposed to believe that when I know she can easily take way more?

She initially told me she had been with around 60 guys, and that was fine, but when she changed her story to hundreds...
I just don't feel good about it. At all.
I don't even think she'll cheat on me or leave, I just can't get the picture of all these big cocks stretching my fiance to the breaking point when I don't. It makes me physically ill. I have been to a therapist for two months now and she says I need to just walk away. I do care about this woman, but I don't think I can get past this.

Dnace is sounds like to me she needs to good and you work on you... the last thing you need is to be marring anygirl now. how old are?

Inserting her vibrator alongside your Cock? Geesh. It sounds like the problem is with the size if her plumbing, not yours.

From what you write here, She is fucking with you and manipulating you to no end and she knows it and she is doing it constantly. You will forever be in pain if you stay with her. Listen to your therapist, and leave the bitch! Man it up! Good luck and you will find better.

You deserve better than that man. I dont know the girl but she sounds like she's been thrashed harder than a rental car. You cant respect a woman who doesn't even respect herself. Its not an achievement for a woman to have slept with hundreds of men. Its easy to be a slut, even fat chicks can be sluts. And then she goes and tells you shes had more deposits than a sperm bank and still expects you to respect and care for her? You cant make a hoe a housewife... I would kick her ass to curb where she belongs, she never going to find a guy that cares for her if she keeps up that attitude

Well, after a very serious talk last night, she's on board and supportive of my PE goals. I don't know how but I finally got through to her that this is important to me. She talked to a mutual guy friend about it and he explained to her that I wasn't abnormal, that lots of guys think about this all the time, and then he asked her if it was really possible to get it enlarged and wanted to know lots more. Go friend!

Anyway, she might walk, she might not, but I am moving forward with living the life I want to live and achieving my goals.

Round 3 will be occurring in the next few months. Maybe I'll be single, maybe I'll be engaged still, but I'll be dammed if I'll let another woman control my life. For everyone who advises to never talk to your woman about these things, but you have wives and girlfriends, how do you explain your trips to mexico? It seems like most of your wives and girlfriends know, so surely you must have discussed both size and PE in general. Why does everyone say to avoid the topic when clearly a lot of you have talked about it?

Just curious.

Dance With Dragons wrote: Well, after a very serious talk last night, she's on board and supportive of my PE goals. I don't know how but I finally got through to her that this is important to me. She talked to a mutual guy friend about it and he explained to her that I wasn't abnormal, that lots of guys think about this all the time, and then he asked her if it was really possible to get it enlarged and wanted to know lots more. Go friend! Anyway, she might walk, she might not, but I am moving forward with living the life I want to live and achieving my goals. Round 3 will be occurring in the next few months. Maybe I'll be single, maybe I'll be engaged still, but I'll be dammed if I'll let another woman control my life. For everyone who advises to never talk to your woman about these things, but you have wives and girlfriends, how do you explain your trips to mexico? It seems like most of your wives and girlfriends know, so surely you must have discussed both size and PE in general. Why does everyone say to avoid the topic when clearly a lot of you have talked about it? Just curious.

I think some of us advocate "avoiding the topic" because it can be interpreted as weakness or insecurity, regardless of whether or not that's the case. It can also be a threat to your partner who may interpret your new found size a new-found-incentive to seek out other partners (whether it's rational or not). It's also a private decision you are making for yourself, I think the only kind of partner this is worth revealing to is a spouse of many years, not some prospect or date. Just my opinion.

I think it's also case-by-case. But you really ought to avoid women who make you dwell on your own size. I mean, here you are, chasing after more gains and may still not measure up to some of her past lovers. Given her comments "too bad you can't exercise your Dick, etc" - she'll have even more leverage against your psyche now that she sees your intent on getting a medical procedure done on your penis. It's madness, you're more than sufficient for much more normal women, I'd advise seeking them out and dumping this one.

Almost every one is telling you to leave her, but I can see it is very hard for you do so. I completely understand your feelings but at the same time you have come for our advise and thoughts yet you are giving that woman every power over you. I see already that you are unable to leave her till she dumps your arse. Not trying to be harsh, but some how I see that happening but of course I hope you will leave her first. I wish I had some of the advise from my fellows members here about 20 years ago when I was going through divorce. All my then married friends gave me the wrong advise, I now know why...they were stuck in their own world of hurt...I learned the hard way!

Your destiny is certain.

Booked round 3 with Dr. C today. June 20th it's me in San diego! Super excited. This is awesome.

Seriously? Members here are taking time to give you all this good man to man advice in your best interest & that is your response?! That's some weak shizit..

Dance With Dragons wrote: Booked round 3 with Dr. C today. June 20th it's me in San diego! Super excited. This is awesome.