TOPIC: swinging and Orgies

Bateria- Sizemic is right. Think about this, do plenty of research. I had teste implants and Elist tried to talk me into a penile implant several times, but I always declined.

If those numbers are right, the chance that you were the smallest (5 times) is very small. Your circumference is in the top 10%. I was just trying to say the math doesn't work.

If they were saying you were the smallest Flaccid, I wouldn't let that bother you (and even your Flaccid Girth is still bigger than 1/2 of guys at least). Some guys grow more than others. Flaccid size is fairly meaningless for sex.

Melo11, STOP... You are spamming the forum and it's obvious.

Bateria wrote: all of them tell me that I was the smallest that they ever had. I also had others girls... and two of them tryed to humilieate me because of my size... I am trying not to be afraid by this anymore and this is why I am here.

You are either dating mentally ill women or you measured wrong. I've never had ANY sexual partner humiliate me over my Dick size*, and I was much smaller than you at one point - so I don't even understand how this happened to you 7 times.

Your 15 cm circumference is enormous (5.9") - average is 12.2 cm (4.8")....and your length is above average (average is 14 cm).

The numbers in the link in ArcticSky's post are even smaller than the ones I am using.



(*) to my face. I know I posted about the one talking about it behind my back online.

thank you for reply it Abitmoregirht! is good to know this, but I had 5 girlfriends until now and all of them tell me that I was the smallest that they ever had. I also had others girls... and two of them tryed to humilieate me because of my size... I am trying not to be afraid by this anymore and this is why I am here.

Nice!

Bateria wrote:

Dance With Dragons wrote: I had toyed with the idea of swinging, but my wife isn't interested in other guys, so she's working on finding other women for MFF threesomes which sounds much more my speed. I still don't like how focused the swinger scene is on women getting lots of Dick and guys watching women getting lots of Dick. That to me is a big turn off. I have a very high Single Market Value, but on the swinger scene I'm just another guy amongst many, trying to fly with clipped wings. Women have all the power in swinging and that isn't my thing at all. If my wife ever decides she wants to do anything like that, I will insist on being able to date single women. There the odds are even. On the swinger scene, she will always come out ahead of me, and I just can't abide that.

Well said Dance With Dragons, I respect guys like you who are honest and brave enough to expose these desires for their wifes. A group of guys destroying my wife is not interesting for me neither.But I can't understand why two couples, that are looking for a girl, stay months (sometimes years) searching for it (without involve money) without see the obvious solution of introducing their wifes each other and let then play... You dont have to share you wife with another man, but you will give her a female friend to have sex with (in front of you). It makes the waiting of finding a girl for MFF more easy and pleasurable.

sorry for bad english. I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

That is called girl/girl and it's not swinging. It's basically like buying popcorn at the movies and not getting to eat any.

Seriously, it takes a lot of stability to swing with your partner.... now add into the situation a male who has insecurities about his Penis to start with?

**Yoda**

Problems in your future I see.......

www.cbc.ca/news/health/study-reveals-ave...ze-for-men-1.2976372

Those girls were lying about you bring the smallest. 15cm Girth is very big and 15cm length is above average. Elist implant is a terrible idea.

thehulk wrote: You're wrong buddy. There's a phrase in the lifestyle and it goes like this.... "We won't take one for the team"

^^^Truth^^^

Look on any swinger board and the majority of the couples profiles that that exact phrase on it.

Penis size (if you are at least 10 cm in length & Girth) is irrelevant to 95% of women in the world. What is much much much more important is what you do with what you have, how you pleasure her before penetration (foreplay), how much she loves you, how turned on she is, etc.

Why would you do an Elist penile implant, then have it removed? Both would be huge mistakes IMHO.

Your length size is average at least and your Girth is above average. When pressed, most women would say that they prefer Girth over length, but neither are deal breakers, except in the cases of micro-penis. They care most about how you treat them, your overall attractiveness and fitness than penile size.

If you've been ridiculed for your size, those girls are; just being cruel, psychotic, sorely misinformed, or lying.

Thank you very much, you all helped me a lot. I hadn't known this numbers. I have ever seen myself as a very small man and thank to you I can now understand why. I mesured myself in flacid state today (lenght 7 cm circunference 10.5 cm), and I was probably smaller in lenght before stretching maybe 6.5 cm... So I have a normal Erect state but a small flacid. I dont know if my condition is common but now I can do a better research in order to find a solution to my problem.Restoration, sorry about my english. What I really wanted to say was that I had a conversation with my ex girlfriends (all 5) and they said that was the smallest, but not in a bad way. I really try to be racional about this subject, and I am very careful about mesuring it using the right and standard technique . Only 2 girls tryed to use this in a bad way (as far as I know).

Dance With Dragons wrote: I had toyed with the idea of swinging, but my wife isn't interested in other guys, so she's working on finding other women for MFF threesomes which sounds much more my speed. I still don't like how focused the swinger scene is on women getting lots of Dick and guys watching women getting lots of Dick. That to me is a big turn off. I have a very high Single Market Value, but on the swinger scene I'm just another guy amongst many, trying to fly with clipped wings. Women have all the power in swinging and that isn't my thing at all. If my wife ever decides she wants to do anything like that, I will insist on being able to date single women. There the odds are even. On the swinger scene, she will always come out ahead of me, and I just can't abide that.

Well said Dance With Dragons, I respect guys like you who are honest and brave enough to expose these desires for their wifes. A group of guys destroying my wife is not interesting for me neither.But I can't understand why two couples, that are looking for a girl, stay months (sometimes years) searching for it (without involve money) without see the obvious solution of introducing their wifes each other and let then play... You dont have to share you wife with another man, but you will give her a female friend to have sex with (in front of you). It makes the waiting of finding a girl for MFF more easy and pleasurable.

sorry for bad english. I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

It becomes less about the size of your Penis and more about quality fun the longer you swing.

Obviously size matters, but average is very well received in the lifestyle. It just so happens, I'm not able to enjoy anal anymore due to mys size... average guys can, I'm jealous of that.

You can't be jealous of shapes and sizes in the lifestyle. You won't last, neither will the couples who only do MFF because one of them is insecure. Very few couples only due that, the ones that do typically have a lesbian who for some reason is with a man. (I've actually ran into that believe it or not)

As always,

Good luck

You are not small in length. I think its quite the average in America. You have a very nice Girth. Way above average in America. I do not see a problem with your size.