TOPIC: Does A Bigger Dick Change Things?

A solid post Supa. I hate Sex in the City for the way it demeans men. I honestly believe (and have talked with my fiance about this who agrees) that America has turned into a culture where men are relocated to second class citizens unless they are abnormally blessed in the penis department, and even then are most often treated as giant oafs with no intellectual prowess. Imagine if we as men, on a regular basis, both in private conversation and through mass media, routinely ridiculed women with large vaginas as absolutely worthless human beings, completely unwomanly and people to be cast aside and shunned. Imagine affording a nearly godlike status to those rare women who could barely fit an average penis inside them, placing them on high above all others, singing songs of praise to them and dedicating countless hours of television and other media to the fact that any woman who can accomodate more than 3 inches of Dick is just not worth our time.

Frankly, it would be well deserved, although I as a compassionate human being with depth understand that creating that kind of complex in half of our population might do some real damage to our society, in fact might begin tearing away at social fabric in a way that might be extremely difficult to undo and shit.

* Adding "and shit" to any statement instantly gives you more street cred, so always add it when broaching an emotionally charged subject that exposes your own isecurities.

The term "young virgins" in no way implies any latent pedophile tendencies. It is naturally assumed that children are virgins, so thus, if a person specifies "virgin" it clearly indicates they are referring to people of an age deemed old enough to be engaging in sexual activity.

For example, when Britney Spears first came to public attention, there was lots of speculation over her virginity. But no one ever talks child sex abuse victims as not being "virgins".

Basically, in popular culture, virginity is very much associated with people who would be viewed as physically ready for sexual activity. You don't ask "is she still a virgin?" about 10 year old girls, but it's a very common question about girls in the later teens.

I bet if you asked any healthy minded guy what they envision when they hear the term "young virgin" it would be a girl like say Britney Spears when she released "Hit Me Baby One More Time."

Now EQstudent, and I swear this isn't a cheap retort to your insult to Supa, but it is far more worrying that you equate the term "young virgin" with pedophilia. As i said previously and I bet virtually all our members will agree with me, most people relate virginity to people physically ready for sex, yet you've managed to equate it to having sex with children. I promise you and I again this isn't a cheap retort, but virtually no one else on the forum would read the term "young virgin" and think this could be related to children. Virtually everyone else would have pictured something like the girls in Barely Legal etc. So you have to ask yourself, why did you make that leap?

Btw, I'm not sure how the posts you've made tonight will go down with SO.

Dance With Dragons wrote: So what is different for me during foreplay (oral, fingering, etc) is that I know I can make a woman cum her brains out doing those things. I don't get the same reactions when I'm using my Dick, and it frustrates me.

This is not unusual. Only 30% of women reliably orgasm from intercourse alone, the vast majority need some additional clitoral stimulation most of the time. If you have slept with all those women since you were 14 you should have noticed that they are all different.

Dance With Dragons wrote: My SO will say she just wants me to fuck her, that she doesn't want foreplay, but I just feel so inadequate it prevents me from enjoying it. I feel like if I was bigger, truly in the average to above average range, it would make me feel like she wasn't faking, like I actually am giving her pleasure.

The fact is that you are above average in length and within the average range for Girth. The recent condomania data of 27,000 penises showed that 50% of men were 5 to 6 in length and 4 to 5 in width with 25% smaller and 25% larger.

If your SO can't orgasm from just intercourse getting a bigger penis is not likely to change that fact! Your issue is in your mind and you need to deal with that in addition to getting PE or you will never be happy. There are men with your size and smaller who are making "women cum their brains out".

Try this simple exercise. Say you gained .75" both length and Girth (certainly doable with procedures) to 7 x 5.25, will you be happy? Chances are if your SO can't have vaginal orgasms she still won't have one. FYI there are guys on here who have that size and are getting procedures.

Go again for another .75 so you are now 7.75 x 6.0 and much larger than most mainstream porn stars. Are you now happy?

Get the picture?

wich doctor are u having ur surgery with dancing with dragons?

Hypocracy at its best here.

thehulk wrote: ...But besides all that, from an outsiders point of view you have zero credibility due to the fact that you had the enlargement performed and then are stating size doesn't matter?

It is fascinating that at least 2 members who responded on your thread and told you in no uncertain terms that they did not think you should have enlargement in fact have had enlargements themselves! My view on your credibility is 10 times lower that your view of mine.

Dr Casavantes told me he does not do length though. only width... He refered me to Dr Camacho for length. i thought u was interested in length too...

supa wrote: Finally, the joke about pedophilia is indeed very graceful. Won't comment further.

Shit my Texans lost!

Sorry dude that was no joke. Anyone who would make a statement like:

supa wrote: I mean young, attractive virgins

in 2013 (unless they are 14 years old) is at the very least so insecure that they cannot deal with real grown women or more likely have latent pedophile tendencies.

You are really, really creeping me out.

Sex is a seriously overrated pastime, in my opinion. Mass media are largely responsible for the worship of sex: in this time and age if you don't ejaculate onto a woman's face, you have not engaged in a threesome with Pamela Anderson looking girls that happily do ass-to-mouth, you are really missing something. They say.

As for women worrying about penis size, we let them! The balance of power tipped decades ago. It was not always like this.

It is my personal understanding (I might be wrong!) that ruthless bitches with a talent to make men miserable in the penis size compartment are particularly widespread in the US, relative to Europe say.Obviously, US culture propagates to Europe; on the plus side, Europeans can, say, enjoy reading the masterpieces written by Cormac McCarthy (please, consider reading "The Road", if you have not already). However, they also have to put with the underrated consequences of the popularity in Europe of "Sex and the City", for instance. How can the Sex&the City woman prototype coexist with the dominant conservative religious views in the US baffles me, but I digress.

What I am trying to say is that until you put "modern" women on the demand side and yourself on the supply, you will want lots of PMMA injected into your Cock. We let women believe they are sitting on a gold mine instead of a vagina. In the end, it is just pussy, not the holy grail. We should know better.

Heck, I have a large network of female friends, some of whom I've had intimacy/sex/size conversations with. I think it's healthy to engage the opposite sex in matters that essentially unite the sexes. What I think Supa is trying to get at are the segment of the female population who have used certain things (e.g. size) to suppress egos, manipulate, and even hurt men for whatever reason (presumably to achieve an upper hand in a relationship). Through PM's and IM's, I hear it all the time. And yes, I've read this stuff in message board threads, although more often at other PE Forums than here. It's just a reality. But these type of women should not be tolerated, just as women should not tolerate abusive men.

Hey DanceWithdrawing....Thanks for your posts. Yes we are men, and YES, we are supposed to talk about anything we need to discuss on this wonderful forum!
Thanks again....Keep us posted on your exciting adventure....Best to you.

supa wrote: That ship has sailed: You are a middle aged divorced man with a child. You are not good mating material for young virgins: you like research, so read it up.

Now that I know we are not joking get it all out dude. You will feel a lot better. Young virgins, is that desirable? Wow you are not a pedophile I hope. Get it all out.

At the end of all this, I will still be me and you will still be whatever you are.

Gotta run, my Texans are down by 10 with only 4 minutes to go.

To address your 3 points:

The notion of emasculation is as much theoretical as it is an opinion, and to find it condescending makes you far too sensitive to engage in these sort of conversations. I'm not entirely sure this "emasculation" is going on at all, but I have as much anecdotal evidence as you have to state its legitimacy one-way-or-the-other.Oh it's absolutely ironic. You were once a man with a thinner penis. Was your perspective different then? Now that you are bigger, has this changed your perception on things? I bet it has. Clearly size must have been of some importance. To seek out an experimental procedure for the purpose of augmenting one's size done purely for your own amusement? I doubt it.The point is that it makes you sound like a rude prick. I responded in kind in hopes that you'd see how it "sounded." I was hoping you would sense some disrespect, not because I meant to disrespect you, but so that you could see how it had an affect on others. It's easy to type away behind your screen, sometimes oblivious to your own arrogance.

At the end of all this, I will still be me and you will still be whatever you are

Now that you get responses for your arrogant tone, to your astonishment you find that the penny has dropped. Your late wording manoeuvre about not wanting to be disrespectful is not credible and comes too late.

Finally, the joke about pedophilia is indeed very graceful. Won't comment further.

I will still be a man of reason whereas you will continue to be a condescending soul: nothing, absolutely nothing which you have exhibited in this forum justifies your attitude: you have to completely recalibrate the concept of yourself: from the way you write it is totally thrown off balance; it would be funny if it were not tragic.

Quote: "What I am trying to say is that until you put "modern" women on the demand side and yourself on the supply, you will want lots of PMMA injected into your Cock"

Unfortunately that may never happen in the US. The men have lost there Balls and can't get them back. There are so many desperate men who will lower their standards to get "any" vagina, and this by itself will give the power to the woman. Add all the media that promotes women and demeans men, most men have no choice left but to add lots of PMMA to their penises and lots of Money to their wallets to be able to get a decent pussy!