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14 years 4 months ago #1272573593@M7 yes I do have a daughter she is 15 months and the most precious gift I have ever received. This is why it is so difficult, I made the mistake of thinking my wife would change after having kids. Nope. She is supportive of me but her general outlook is very pessimistic. I on the other hand am a very positive person most cases. I find myself adopting her mentality and I can not allow my daughter to see that, I want my girl to grow into someone like me only more confident and happy.
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14 years 4 months ago #1272575234- Miracle8x7
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I have three sons and I agree about them being the most precious gift ever. I hope my sons each grow to be a better man than I. My wife's vagina is NOT the same after three children. While she had an episiotomy, unfortunately she never returned to her pre-childbirth tightness despite all the kegels. She is also not a candidate for vaginal rejuvenation. I'm simply stuck trying to fill a bigger hole. Having experimented with various sized dildos, I've found that anything over 6" gets a great response from her. At 6 1/2", she was biting her bottom lip, grunting, gyrating, convulsing and flopping like a fish. After climaxing, she could handle a 7 1/2" and was flat out vulgar and talking nasty. Size DOES matter (at least to my wife). She's told me that Girth is where it's at regarding pleasure for a female as long as it's not too short (less than 4-5"). I never told her what the actual dimensions were of the dildos we experimented with. While she was cooking one day I grabbed a large cucumber and ran to the bedroom and measured it (it was 6.5" in circumference). I teased her asking playfully, "Don't you wish I was this big?" She replied, "Hell no! That would tear me apart!" She has no idea that she loved that very same size just weeks prior. Our second child was huge with a large head and broad shoulders. I blame him for ruining a good thing (haha). Sex still feels okay at my current size but I imagine I'll need a solid 6.25" MSEG to really make her go wild. She said that there is no comparison to a penis and a dildo of equal size (the penis feels MUCH better). I wonder if Dr. C would consider a "frequent filler" plan at a reduced rate?!?! LOL
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14 years 4 months ago #1272625762- Mustang2020
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I waited about 5.5 months between rnd 1 and 2. If you can wait, it may be better to give it more time to stabalize....Good luck!
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14 years 4 months ago #1272714260- Mustang2020
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Caveman wrote: Mustang unfortunately I won't be able go again until 2013(after the end of the world) I have everything booked already. I plan on round 3 in 2013.
Well then, go for rnd 2 and use it as much as you can before Dec 22, 2012 ...I sure will
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14 years 4 months ago #1272764266- Miracle8x7
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14 years 4 months ago #1272786922You are altering your body because of psychological trauma...if your wife does not know how you felt when she said that you may two choices: (1) she is not the right one because she will fault anything when you are down based on what she said or 2) go to a sex therapist who is also a marriage counselor and try to talk through what she said and how it affected you.
It sounds like you are throwing in the towel thought IMO. Perhaps it is her that is throwing it in. If you want to save it...do not wait for her to tell you it is over. We think slower than women. If you think it is ending and you want to save it, be proactive and enlist a professional.
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P.S. If she will not work on it either (1) you waited too long, or (2) she is replaceable. There are many girls that are "better than being alone". Not a know it all...just been through it...
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