TOPIC: Online Dating Confirms: Women Prefer Big Dicks

aaaand i feel like, after learning this that... "large" isnt enough yknow? like... i want more, and... i dont think its unfair to ask!

Yeah, ght, so when you say you're getting tons of attention with those pics, give some demographics on this. Age/hotness of the girls who respond? What kind of opening lines are you getting? How many? I typically was talking to 2-5 girls a day when doing the online thing.

Also, I tried an experiment where I listed my height at 6'1 instead of my actual short height, and I suddenly got waaaay more responses from hotter girls.

The bottom line, Yeah, most people suck. And if you were taller, had a better body, a bigger Dick, more money and confidence, and especially were famous, you can fuck pretty much whoever you wanted.

Shocked I am at this breaking news. On the topic at hand though, I've only ever used my fat Dick as a way to close the sale, never to open.

yeah me too, never sold with it before... thats why i thought it was interesting, i thought it wouldn't work at all. i'd say generally hot women, some ugly. they seem to be on the heavier side which is interesting, and about 20 a day. a lot of "hello" type messages. timid stuff.

Identical experience as me. I am not really into chunky girls for dating, but I'll give them a one nighter for sure. I have been solicited by heavy women and they open with "size/are you available right now."

My theory is that chunky girls hook up online because most guys will fuck a fat girl as long as no one sees them do it. If they go out to the bar, they are far less likely to get laid by a decent looking guy.

As for Cock size, I think heavier girls are more likely to want big ones for two reasons:

1. They are less likely to have encountered them in the past because they just don't have the ability to get the top picks among guys, and they really want to try one out. I routinely have heard from heavier girls I'm among the biggest they've had.

2. They have way less muscle tone (not always but generally) and as a result are looser.

This is all theory, of course I don't know, but from my experience in online dating with quality women, it goes in this order:

1. Looks (how good is your picture, smile, body).
2. Height. A short guy is like a fat girl, you have to be extremely attractive and quick witted if you're a short guy, and 8 out of 10 will pass you over regardless.
3. Income - it's right there, if you don't answer you might as well say you're broke. They want a guy with some loot.
4. Everything else, including Cock size.

nohidingstyle wrote: well... it is very depressing... i thought i was worth something to women by being me, but its just my Dick they want. sucks right... i guess thats why we're all here

Well they don't know you so i wouldn't be so fast to conclude they just want your Dick & wouldn't like your personality if they did know you. An online profile is still not a person...Dick or not. And not many women write to guys online bc they are being flooded by guys who write to 20 women a day.

And # 2 - just please be happy you have a huge Dick. It could be a lot worse. If people "only" liked me because I was hung or good looking - I really wouldn't be upset about it. I think life would be a lot easier. I mean, honestly - 2 hours and 70 guys begging to have sex w/ me? I'm not exactly gonna complain... except for the fact it was a fake Dick pic that led to that. Yours was real. What's there to be depressed about? None of these people said "your personality and face are awful - but I'll just brown bag it and go for a ride".

I almost forgot to say, btw, your junk looks freaking huge in those pics. It looks like it's 8 inches long and fat. Knowing that your length is right around mine, how's that work? Is my days dysmorphia so bad that someone else with the same length looks huge but mine looks small by comparison?

wow smalljay, that's pretty obscene. and i disagree. i still respect women. i respect people. just because they're bad doesn't mean i should be too.

anyway. yeah i mean i'm pretty good with the camera. i have a smallish frame (33 waist). i also kinda tilt the underwear/pants to make it look longer, as the point is to look huge for this experiment. but, other than that, not sure why. it may be your dysmorphia.

it was okcupid. also thought i'd let you know, i think they took down my profile. it just says i technical difficulties. i didn't actually break any rules:

Photo RulesYour photos must follow Staff Robot's rules. The rules ensure that you will see real people, and they will see the real you.You must appear in the photo!No full nudity.No extreme closeups.No pets, cards, baby photos, artwork, images you've added yourself to, etc.I don't think these were that, plus even if maybe the black and white one was, it should have had the photo deleted not the account. i can see them wanting to delete it, but i followed all the rules and it was a real account... shrug... experiment likely over.

My friend randomly got to be a moderator on OK cupid (they just gave her mod privileges randomly) and she sent me her password so I could look at all the crazy stuff that goes on there. There is a button specifically for "obscene nudity" on the moderator screen. And, if you get too many moderators clicking that, your profile just vanishes. Basically it works like this:

Person Flags Profile
Goes to moderation queue & about a dozen mods vote on it
Mods vote on "delete" or "keep" and mark the type of violation
If it is "obscene nudity" (based on a majority # of opinions of the mods) then okc takes the whole profile down. Yours isn't what I would consider "obscene" for okc (it wasn't out... though some guys do that) - but I guess enough other people thought it was.

There's a similar process for profile text content and emails. Some email exchanges get INSANE when certain guys get rejected or ignored...it was mildly addicting to be a mod on there - I had to stop myself from continuing to keep looking.

I was on OkC like 2 weeks until I realized it was all the same people that are on every other app & website in this area. I have to just meet people in person. I am amazed by how many people I know now who got married from online meetings, but all I end up ever doing is having sex w/ the person (i am a ho). 9/10 times I don't really like them, but I'll just be like - we can fuck around and then buh-bye! (and vice versa - the hot/cute ones do the same to me...ugh - hate online). Maybe it works better for heteros though... I put Tinder on & women will actually have normal conversions & be interesting (and then I feel kinda bad bc they have no idea I am a homo...and I matched with like 50 of them). Guys will just be like "HUNG?" or "TOP??" or "Where at?? Free?" - or they are incredibly boring w/ no conversation ability. Some won't even talk on the phone anymore! I'm like, wtf are we gonna do in person? Text??

my main account is a mod account. they don't let mods see conversations anymore. privacy issues. there was no nudity in my pics. women whose accounts get flagged have people commenting in the mod section saying "nipples hidden, no violation, leave alone" but then a dude has a clothed boner and ban

Yeah you just got uptight people then. It's so random. People have left up obvious porn star fake pics (unaware of how to use google image search) - and this one pic of a guy using pics of a quarterback of a football team had a fake profile for a YEAR or more in my area... I flagged it so many times & dumbass mods didn't even bother to google the QB - or some argued "maybei t's really him" - uh, no. He's married w/ kids in another city! Mods are morons. I wouldn't have clicked the "obscene nudity" button for your Dick...but I'm sure women (and jealous guys) did (and I am a pig anyway - the more the merrier when it comes to Dick). I think okc is just very protective of trying to keep the site to "dating" and not hookups...and dicks are much more "offensive" to people than monstrous cleavage for some reason...it's like the HBO effect - you see 2000 boobs for ever 1 partial penis (and certainly not that size!). That's what people are used to.

That's interesting about the convos - I haven't logged into her profile in a long time... but reading those were some serious entertainment. And, it made me feel better about staying out of the dating pool.

well i've parlayed a few of the contacts from before the account was deleted into dates. had one tonight. no sex, but i think when they're thinking about sex its better to keep them wanting it, build it up. i'm not so pathetic i need it right away. anyway... my main profile gets about four dates per month, maybe ten if i really try. i got four dates in four days with the Dick pics... case closed imho.

I have been doing the online dating for a while now as well, I have not used my junk as an opener yet -- just to close the deal. I may try opening an another account and experiment using the new package as an opener. No doubt it will be like moths to a flame.... lol

nohidingstyle wrote: well... it is very depressing... to me.. i have a large penis but... i dont want that to be so important. women frame men for being insecure about penis size, like it is their psych issue. but i did this expecting nearly instant ban, and yet i get tons of attention from women... it just really hurts to have my identity so bashed... i thought i was worth something to women by being me, but its just my Dick they want. sucks right... i guess thats why we're all here

I hope you feel better. But what you experienced is Reality in our modern/feminine based society. I had realized this going through my divorce over 20 years ago..."most" women are emotional, are in denial and are the biggest hypocrites in the world!

NO insult meant to ANY of reader's female loved ones, OK?

Meh guys I tried this on POF a couple weeks ago... Sure I got some messages BUT they were mostly from novelty purposes.

What I mean is girls messaged me to either be like:"OMG that's crazy." only to chat a bit and it went no-where. or "Dude you are being such a douche for posting pics like that."

Not a single girl was actually interested in meeting or in giving their numbers no matter how good my game was (and trust me... my game is good . I get far more action not even referring to the size of my Dick. Just saying.