--- title: "The sad truth - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "Well, I hate to say this but I am going to. After all these years I know I have a good woman. She has been telling me for years... - Page 2" url: "https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/love-lust-vanity/9858859-the-sad-truth.html?start=15" date: "2026-08-06T19:46:42+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: The sad truth ## Re: The sad truth 7 years 10 months ago [\#1305638764](#1305638764) - **[Lexus27](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2008135-lexus27.html "View Lexus27's Profile")** - [![Lexus27's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2008135-lexus27.html "View Lexus27's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2008135-lexus27.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 370 - Thanks: 0 - - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2008135) Funny how we have guys saying don't do it meanwhile their busy either chasing after a big penis or already have had theirs done. Now that's the sad truth. I'm sure he will come to a decision soon and not accept advice from confused ppl Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2xvdmUtbHVzdC12YW5pdHkvOTg1ODg1OS10aGUtc2FkLXRydXRoLmh0bWw/bWFya2Rvd249MSZzdGFydD0xNQ==) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: The sad truth 7 years 10 months ago [\#1305639077](#1305639077) - **[biggy](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/5836159-biggy.html "View biggy's Profile")** - [![biggy's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/5836159-biggy.html "View biggy's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/5836159-biggy.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 107 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=5836159) > Lexus27 wrote: Funny how we have guys saying don't do it meanwhile their busy either chasing after a big penis or already have had theirs done. Now that's the sad truth. I'm sure he will come to a decision soon and not accept advice from confused ppl If he was 3.5" Girth and single because of it, then I'm sure many would have a different point of view. But advising a happily married man, with an already very big penis, to risk an enlargement, doesn't seem right to me. Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2xvdmUtbHVzdC12YW5pdHkvOTg1ODg1OS10aGUtc2FkLXRydXRoLmh0bWw/bWFya2Rvd249MSZzdGFydD0xNQ==) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: The sad truth 7 years 10 months ago [\#1305641910](#1305641910) - **[Gg82](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/3985692-gg82.html "View Gg82's Profile")** - [![Gg82's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/3985692-gg82.html "View Gg82's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/3985692-gg82.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 232 - Thanks: 16 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=3985692) > Lexus27 wrote: @biggy I'm advising him to do what he feels is best. All I'm really saying is that i support whatever decision he makes. Now as far as already being big already, when has that stop other guys from doing it even though they had a average penis already? We are only here for support and to advise guys to stay away from the bad doctors. Other than that this is a penis enlargement forum and there is happily married men who have had different procedures done. Just FYI He directly asked our opinions, he didn't ask would you support me. Of course we are gonna support each other on here, and everyone is entitled to have his penis as big as he wants to, Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2xvdmUtbHVzdC12YW5pdHkvOTg1ODg1OS10aGUtc2FkLXRydXRoLmh0bWw/bWFya2Rvd249MSZzdGFydD0xNQ==) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: The sad truth 7 years 10 months ago [\#1306015946](#1306015946) - **[joshusdog](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6373309-joshusdog.html "View joshusdog's Profile")** - [![joshusdog's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6373309-joshusdog.html "View joshusdog's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6373309-joshusdog.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 2 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6373309) I'm having the exact same experience. I tried the sleeve and my wife came quicker and harder than she ever had before. But then I started going down the rabbit hole with bigger sleeves and then a hollow strap on. The fatter it was, the harder and quicker she came. Now I've mind fucked myself. I've lost every shred of sexual confidence in my own penis. I can't un-see her eyes rolling back. I can't un-hear the animal moans. Now I can't even get an Erection to put the sleeve on. > lakingsfan35 wrote: Well, I hate to say this but I am going to. After all these years I know I have a good woman. She has been telling me for years how I am perfect size for her and how she loves my willy as it is. > > I once again showed her pics of the Dr. Morales thread of the guys penis especially on that post. She said no I like my willy the way it is. Two days later I have her a full body massage. During the massage I excused myself into the bathroom. I put on the sleeve and wahed my hands. > > I came back out and 10 minutes later, I gave her a 20 minute long hard ride. > Her exact comments were "My God baby I can't stop cumming" "you feel so damn good!" " I wish sex felt this good everytime" > > When we were done I simply said this is why it was so damn good, showed her my pecker with the sleeve on it and walked away into our bathroom. When I came back into the room with a wet towel for her to clean up with like I always do, she had the tenacity to say she likes my willy without the sleeve. > > Bullshit I said, I just watched your eyes roll back into your head for 15 to 20 minutes as you had 5 or 6 body quivering, mind shattering orgasms. So we layed close to each other, and as I was running my fingers thru her hair, she pulled me close and wispered into my ear how much she loved me and how she is feeling a bit sore and that while yes the sex was great and fun but not for every time, and she prefers my natural woody. > > So when she wasn't home, I rubbed one to a full woody put the sleeve on and measured with 100% Erection. I measured 5.85" at circ scar. Midshaft is 6.25" (where the sleeve starts) and the base was full 7.0" The sleeve was cut down to 3" long and it's basically only on from the base my penis to mid shaft. > > > Seeing how she reacts I may make a stealth 1 day trip to Mexico for 1 round only and try to get to 6.25 to 6.5 in one round. Or I can buy another 4 or 5,keep them on hand and save thousands of dollars. > > The truth I've got a great woman that loves me, > > The sad truth is I feel as if I'm inadequate compared to 6.5 to 7.0 because every time I wear it it rocks her world........my thought process tells me she can handle the 7" like a champ and her vag will adjust to the constant new Girth and she won't always be sore. > I do know after I get aggressive with 4 fingers she also complains about being sore, but she comes real hard. Ive been doing that for decades. Maybe that's why she says she prefers my natural size. She orgasms with my natural size, its just rocking her world with 4 fingers or the sleeve. I will say we use a vib on her clit every time, literally every time for 20 years > > > So here's the big question, should I keep surprising her by only using this occasionally or get 1 round and rock her world every time? I know PMMA outcome possibly deform my penis into frankendick, I also know she may not like the going behind her back, I'm sure she would eventually forgive me.......and what if I get to 6.25 to 6.50 and she is sore every time?? What then? > > You guys with the 6.5 to 7.0 Girth are your ladies sore after every time? Has your sex frequency gone down? I get laid alot for a married guy in a relationship for 20 years and I DON'T want a reduction of sex for a bit of Girth....... Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2xvdmUtbHVzdC12YW5pdHkvOTg1ODg1OS10aGUtc2FkLXRydXRoLmh0bWw/bWFya2Rvd249MSZzdGFydD0xNQ==) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: The sad truth 7 years 10 months ago [\#1305609169](#1305609169) - **[Southdub](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4701651-southdub.html "View Southdub's Profile")** - [![Southdub's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4701651-southdub.html "View Southdub's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4701651-southdub.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 175 - Thanks: 8 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4701651) A plastic sleeve is clearly fake and not you but plastic injected into your Cock is you.... ? either way the reality is they are both not you and fake. Seems easier sticking to the plastic sleeve option to add Girth for sex considering you motives are for the bedroom only? Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2xvdmUtbHVzdC12YW5pdHkvOTg1ODg1OS10aGUtc2FkLXRydXRoLmh0bWw/bWFya2Rvd249MSZzdGFydD0xNQ==) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: The sad truth 7 years 10 months ago [\#1306018778](#1306018778) - **[Dickwitman](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4646846-dickwitman.html "View Dickwitman's Profile")** - [![Dickwitman's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4646846-dickwitman.html "View Dickwitman's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4646846-dickwitman.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 139 - Thanks: 2 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4646846) Anyone have a good recommendation for a sleeve? My wife doesn't like dildos because they feel 'cold' she says . Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2xvdmUtbHVzdC12YW5pdHkvOTg1ODg1OS10aGUtc2FkLXRydXRoLmh0bWw/bWFya2Rvd249MSZzdGFydD0xNQ==) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: The sad truth 7 years 10 months ago [\#1305610225](#1305610225) - **[chester](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4437325-chester.html "View chester's Profile")** - [![chester's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4437325-chester.html "View chester's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4437325-chester.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 808 - Thanks: 11 - - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4437325) > Gg82 wrote: I would only focus on having hard steel erections with a natural 5.85' Girth, wouldn't risk complications. > And i would keep the sleeves for special occasions to enable more fun; if she said she was sore, i'm not sure she's up for huge Girth every time. > > Just my 2 cents. Agreed. Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2xvdmUtbHVzdC12YW5pdHkvOTg1ODg1OS10aGUtc2FkLXRydXRoLmh0bWw/bWFya2Rvd249MSZzdGFydD0xNQ==) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: The sad truth 7 years 10 months ago [\#1305638648](#1305638648) - **[rcjones75](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/5835576-rcjones75.html "View rcjones75's Profile")** - [![rcjones75's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/5835576-rcjones75.html "View rcjones75's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/5835576-rcjones75.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 4 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=5835576) Couldnt you do HA for a temp and see if she if she likes it not then make your decision together? 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