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title: "Re:help - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards"
description: "I've been penis shamed in public- i cannot reconcile this in my head. People in my own circles . I had reached a place where I didnt feel it mattered too..."
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#  TOPIC: Re:help

##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299953165](#1299953165)

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> bobbob wrote: someone i know from the past mention to people who know me, including guys and girls about my size..its one thing if i didnt know these people i cant handle this..ive tried some Jelqing and stretching techniques and dont feel is worked i need to feel theres hope something i can do i wont be able to work now or anything i need support, i need a plan.. Thanks man

I would say buy a pump and buy a cheap extender. You can buy both these things on eBay or amazon.

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299956013](#1299956013)

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 im in a location where its difficult to do these things..can these methods add more than an Inch?

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299956821](#1299956821)

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 I am posting here because i am fairly new to this forum, but have been reading the boards on and off for a few months. In the interest of all the members who read and post on these boards, i want to share with everyone some criticism of the Phalloboards themselves that i have come across. I was initially surprised, then pissed off that maybe we are being manipulated by certain members of the group. At this point, i don't know who to believe, but i came across this recent post and thought i should share it with everyone.

I know this is not the right place to post this....i don't see a way on the website to post my own thread. Either this will spark an honest debate about the reliability of the information on this website, or it will be buried. Check out the link below which basically describes a conflict of interest situation involving the moderators of this forum.

You have to ask yourself, Is it possible this is true? or is it some malcontent slinging mud? Personally I'm on the fence until i have more information.

[ www.ripoffreport.com/reports/wade-zobel-...juana-mexico-1297078](http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/wade-zobel-of-avanti-dermal-dr-casavantes/tijuana-22420/beware-of-nurse-wade-zobel-for-dr-casavantes-of-avanti-derma-tijuana-mexico-1297078)

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299952982](#1299952982)

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 What happened, guy?

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299957081](#1299957081)

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 i like how that report puts p***s instead of penis. lol!

i also like the line 'Again, neither Wade nor Dr. C have touched my d***, nor do I expect they ever will' like actually he won't fully rule it out.

also: hey look! lakingsfan makes an appearance in that thread. and he starts off with a lmao line! LOL. nice one, lakingsfan.

bobbob, you could think about PMMA. research it on this forum. there is hope man. i feel for you, honestly a truly bad thing to happen. we've probably all been there, right where it hurts.

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299954528](#1299954528)

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 I know that...which is depressing cause i dont see what else i can do..i hope others can offer advice..

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299953252](#1299953252)

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 So I've tried the extender thing put in good hours at least for half a year...didnt get me anywhere significant

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299954291](#1299954291)

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> bobbob wrote: So I've tried the extender thing put in good hours at least for half a year...didnt get me anywhere significant

 That really the only way to get longer.

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1300081024](#1300081024)

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> bobbob wrote:
> Omg! Im sorry to hear..What'd you do?..The only thing I can think of is move away to a different place..

 That's what I'm planning eventually

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299956622](#1299956622)

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 You can always pump, You can get a pump for $15.

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299957134](#1299957134)

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 Thanks man. my issue though is length and theres no real safe way to add length except stretching,Jelqing, etc..which ive tried

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299953054](#1299953054)

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 Just get PMMA and everything will get better. What your fg, fl, eg and el?

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299953071](#1299953071)

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 someone i know from the past mention to people who know me, including guys and girls about my size..its one thing if i didnt know these people i cant handle this..ive tried some Jelqing and stretching techniques and dont feel is worked i need to feel theres hope something i can do i wont be able to work now or anything i need support, i need a plan.. Thanks man

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299956921](#1299956921)

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 Its obviously not true

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##  Re: Re:help

   8 years 11 months ago [\#1299955902](#1299955902)

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> indiano123 wrote: That really the only way to get longer.

 Hanging also works.

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