TOPIC: Women discuss dildo girth

aqueergal wrote: Um...... am I stupid or are yall stupid? 5" Girth?! YIKES!!! 5" should be the length, NOT the Girth!!

I am currently looking into purchasing my first dildo. I have been on the receiving end of one before, it was somewhere between 1.5 and 1.75 inches, I believe... in Girth. THAT was difficult getting inside, always had to do a lot of warming up first. I am small, but not THAT small. 5" Girth sounds insane to me. That's larger than a newborn baby's head! I understand there are a few women with extremely loose vaginas, especially if they've already had a baby, who might like 5" Girth.... but as you can see in the link posted, this is a tiny minority of women. Most prefer 2" Girth MAX. I am looking for a 1.25" dildo to start with.... unfortunately most seem to be a little bigger than that and have no size variations, or to be cheap and poor quality. So picking a dildo is difficult. There is only one dildo I REALLY want right now, and it only comes in 1.5" and 1&5/8". Grr.

I dont think you understand Girth measurement. We are talking Girth in circumference not straight across.

Check out this thread and poll, where women discuss dildo girth and what they consider their upper limits:

www.edenfantasys.com/sex-forum/sex-toys/...-how-big-is-too-big/

I think this has more value than most size based discussions as with dildos they actually know the sizes and therefore aren't guessing and we know women are terrible at that.

I don't think the results really tell us that those reporting better sex with huge girths are wrong. I think it more likely just demonstrates how mental stimulation is the key to sexual pleasure. I think the fact that men are so often convinced that sex is better for a woman when they have a large girth suggests that if a man is extremely turned on and confident it will be better for the woman.

I'm absolutely, 100% convinced I'd be much better in bed with a 6" girth than with a 5.5" girth, despite the fact, this and virtually every other credible source I've encountered suggests 5.5" is closer to what more women would prefer size wise. In fact I think I'd be better with 6.25". No matter how hard I try to be rational about this subject I'm simply unable to be and as a result my insecurities are so great that I'd be worried that a 5.5" girth wouldn't be enough. So I wouldn't be able to relax and get turned on. Women can sense these things and things would become awkward. Yet the mere thought of whipping out a 6.25" girth turns me on and I'm sure I could screw the hell out of most women with it. Despite the fact it would be less comfortable for them, I think as a result of my extra confidence they'd have a much better time.

Nice description HC
How does Girth impact anal, for those of you who practice ? My GF is ok with the idea of PMMA except that she thinks it will hurt there. If it hurts, she said she wont do it no more... I know too much lube is almost enough, but I would not want to lose that.

Um...... am I stupid or are yall stupid? 5" Girth?! YIKES!!! 5" should be the length, NOT the Girth!!

I am currently looking into purchasing my first dildo. I have been on the receiving end of one before, it was somewhere between 1.5 and 1.75 inches, I believe... in Girth. THAT was difficult getting inside, always had to do a lot of warming up first. I am small, but not THAT small. 5" Girth sounds insane to me. That's larger than a newborn baby's head! I understand there are a few women with extremely loose vaginas, especially if they've already had a baby, who might like 5" Girth.... but as you can see in the link posted, this is a tiny minority of women. Most prefer 2" Girth MAX. I am looking for a 1.25" dildo to start with.... unfortunately most seem to be a little bigger than that and have no size variations, or to be cheap and poor quality. So picking a dildo is difficult. There is only one dildo I REALLY want right now, and it only comes in 1.5" and 1&5/8". Grr.

This discussion makes me believe that it is okay to go back for a round 3.
6-6.25EG seems to be the optimal size for wow factor. More than 6.5 EG seems to be a bit of a freakshow for them, but I'm sure some women still like it.

Even a woman who says her max is 5.5 can probably handle an extra half Inch "in the flesh".
Nice post hoddle.

It works for me.

I still feel women are far more aware of what other's think about them and will go for the medium Girth because their man is either standing right there or they feel somehow that they have a huge vagina if they choose the biggest Girth. Just my opinion but come from decades around women.

el6eg4,

I agree: that hurts!

Having lived almost all my life at 4" Girth, thinking all was fine and assuming my insecurity was due to guys heckling me, little did I realize how it affects sex for women. I am fairly sure that you will be amazed at how their reaction is different. You move from "Oh, I really like him, so it must be good..." to an entirely different range of moans and groans and girls becoming totally addicted to you.

One recently told me that she really likes the guy attached to my awesome unit. The next day another woman referred to it as the 8th wonder of the world. And this is with only 5" length. No such comments at 4" Girth, by no fault of much greater efforts. Incredibly, it isn't all about friction or technique, but possibly more about pressure applied from the inside and the distance of dilation at each insertion. Doing this requires having diameter.

So, it is rather an unjust situation that women are so configured that they need a certain amount of Girth to be satisfied physically and sexually and even to some degree romantically. Of course Girth won't dictate a woman's feelings, but it sure helps them get carried away. One was in love with me back in the day, but at 4" Girth I was always more in love with her while she dominated the relationship. Now it's the other way around. Can you guess why? Shame but it is something which impacts their psyche, but not separately: they perceive us differently. Bizarre.

Regarding this very interesting poll, I venture to say that it may be possible that the largest proportion of women responding to 5.5 inches were those who never had kids, and those wishing for larger yet are those who got stretched. In example, one of my girlfriends never had a child pass through there, and she sort of complains that I'm if anything too large. Though she still is hooked. So it seems that if one is at around 4" in Girth, it is probably the most bang for the buck expenditure one could make.

Hunk Chunk

iron_martian wrote:

aqueergal wrote: Um...... am I stupid or are yall stupid? 5" Girth?! YIKES!!! 5" should be the length, NOT the Girth!!

I am currently looking into purchasing my first dildo. I have been on the receiving end of one before, it was somewhere between 1.5 and 1.75 inches, I believe... in Girth. THAT was difficult getting inside, always had to do a lot of warming up first. I am small, but not THAT small. 5" Girth sounds insane to me. That's larger than a newborn baby's head! I understand there are a few women with extremely loose vaginas, especially if they've already had a baby, who might like 5" Girth.... but as you can see in the link posted, this is a tiny minority of women. Most prefer 2" Girth MAX. I am looking for a 1.25" dildo to start with.... unfortunately most seem to be a little bigger than that and have no size variations, or to be cheap and poor quality. So picking a dildo is difficult. There is only one dildo I REALLY want right now, and it only comes in 1.5" and 1&5/8". Grr.

If you have measuring tape and wrap it around your penis, the circumference is measured in either inches or centimeters. If measured from a side to side view which is diameter that's how your getting 1.25" = circumference 4 inches. By the way, you're not very polite for a first timer to the forum.

Skeptical One wrote: Interesting poll, and this comes from women who are much more comfortable about their sexuality and much more in tune with achieving pleasure... and from prior readings, I still see 5.5" coming up quite frequently as the upper limit for most women... and that even the average Girth is plenty good. Great find!

It was found by a guy on Thundersplace.

After looking at the poll and then reading all the comments, I'm now more convinced than ever that PMMA is a good idea for me:

1% of women voted for a size equal to my Girth... 1%!

Good stuffs.

Regarding anal (sorry if I sound obsessed here) I heard a few times the story outlined by HC " if you let me shove something that big in your ass I am all yours".
Well the thing is to accept it. I had it a couple times, and women LOVE doing that. But they love it only once or twice. After that they are not interested anymore. But, they recognize your efforts and the only thing they can do is let you fuck them in the ass afterwards.
Ok, some of you may think " whoa this guy is crazy". Yes, I had women do that to me, and it was painful and I hated it even with more lube than you can think about. But it was the only way for me to get what I wanted.
My best ROI was with a girl who told me "you are best of the best. I never imagined I could orgasm this way".
Needless to say, I enjoyed it many times with her. One day, she was cooking something in her little black dress, we had guests at home. and I came behind her, and that was too much for me. The guests had to wait a bit more than until the shrimps were properly cooked, but what I can say is that I went straight into that tender part of her. Ah! What a delicious memory. And why did I have to leave her for a girl only 3 years younger, who did not like anal half as much?
And I am like mustang : I prefer no kids small framed women below 35. Anal is awesome with them
Just sayin'
But then I am not 7"