--- title: "Sex, Porn, & Arousal Addiction... are you an addict? Lets break the addiction! - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "Hey everyone, in the recent week I have come to the realization that I have a serious problem that is preventing me from being the... - Page 3" url: "https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/love-lust-vanity/6080084-sex-porn-arousal-addiction-are-you-an-addict-lets-break-the-addiction.html?start=30" date: "2026-08-06T20:07:34+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: Sex, Porn, & Arousal Addiction... are you an addict? Lets break the addiction! ## Re: Sex, Porn, & Arousal Addiction... are you an addict? Lets break the addiction! 13 years 8 months ago [\#1275938542](#1275938542) - **[jlmb](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1725729-jlmb.html "View jlmb's Profile")** - [![jlmb's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1725729-jlmb.html "View jlmb's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1725729-jlmb.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 294 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1725729) I think I'm experiencing similar issues right now, not exactly pure porn addiction, but similar, I'm not going to get super detaily because it involves my same-sex sex life and I don't need to hit you guys over the head with it unnecessary. Basically, even with my pre R1 PMMA size I was nicely above average size and had zero issues in high school or college pleasing women and or feeling inadequate or unconfident about my size, and often complemented on my length. After R1, it was a such a big upgrade in Girth that my confidence was over the roof and I went wild and had a good time with girls and my new size, and looking back a lot of it would of been impossible without the great R1 results. At the same time, any of my same-sex hookups I was always the biggest, and often considerably. Doing stints in Asia didn't really help this as often the size difference was drastic and there were definite elements of alpha male mentality and my sexual worth being linked to my Cock size. So, in order words the almost magical increase of Girth a long with the resulting sluttiness (getting out of a long relationship) allowed me to be a bit more obsessed with my Dick and my size issues, which is definitely something I didn't really want as I'm probably too obsessed to begin as I've been in the PE community for like 6+ years no, since I was like 17. I did think I was finally forgetting to care about size and just starting to enjoy my new studliness when I started Hanging out with a new guy friend who has now become my boyfriend. Hes the first guy I've ever hooked up with who has been bigger than me, and aesthetically its a big difference in my eyes. He doesn't care at all and loves mine, and I think even erroneously thinks mine is thicker (its not, he is 6.1" Girth to my 5.7" but as hes not Dick obsessed I don't think he really has noticed) , but basically I can't get good erections at all as I think I'm ego-hurt at not being the alpha. We're both Bi and frequently share stories and I also get ego-hurt when I hear or think about his bigger Cock fucking girls. This doesn't completely feed into sexual dominance or submissiveness or sex roles, top, bottom etc, as we don't really do that, so I won't burden you guys. Its something I need to deal with, as obviously I am statistically not huge and shouldn't delude myself into thinking im at the definite top of the ladder of Dick size, and I should be comfortable at my above average level. It just makes it a bit harder when a lot of my porn has two dicks in it, and is even more size focused, and when hooking up you're not comparing yourself with non-present exs or competition but the person whos there and you're having sex with. But in the end, I know that even in the gay world its not just defined by a scale of Dick size and thats it. I can think rational thoughts all I want, but when it comes down to the self-esteem moments that doesn't block the negative thoughts. So my situation is that I'm trying to severe my sexual worth, or sexual confidence from just being my Dick size, and actually appreciate my current size and my other attributes. Knowing that I still want at least one more PMMA round makes it easy for me to fantasize and lust after having a bigger unit, but I need to remind myself that it isn't something I need to yearn for or miss out on current things to wait for a 'better future'. I know I was basically holding out on new sex partners before R1 as I wanted to just wait until after I was bigger, and I don't think thats healthy, and thats not something I want to happen again. So, I need to change my perspective and priority of PE in my life, and maybe tone down the size-centric porn I guess. 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Lets break the addiction! 13 years 8 months ago [\#1275730163](#1275730163) - **[Miracle8x7](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1724055-miracle8x7.html "View Miracle8x7's Profile")** - [![Miracle8x7's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1724055-miracle8x7.html "View Miracle8x7's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1724055-miracle8x7.html) - Moderator - ![Moderator](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rankmod.gif) - Posts: 1328 - Thanks: 1 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1724055) You're welcome buddy. You CAN do it! It will also preserve you from sexual exhaustion and 'burn out' later in life. Trust me, you'll still want to be sexually active decades down the road! 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Lets break the addiction! 13 years 8 months ago [\#1275752443](#1275752443) - **[Miracle8x7](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1724055-miracle8x7.html "View Miracle8x7's Profile")** - [![Miracle8x7's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1724055-miracle8x7.html "View Miracle8x7's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1724055-miracle8x7.html) - Moderator - ![Moderator](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rankmod.gif) - Posts: 1328 - Thanks: 1 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1724055) Good advice SO. 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