--- title: "How I tell partners (yes I tell them) - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "I’ve been lurking and participating in this forum for years and it has been a huge help to me in so many ways. So first , shoutout to for running this show..." url: "https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/general-discussion/10153841-how-i-tell-partners-yes-i-tell-them.html" date: "2026-08-06T21:46:27+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: How I tell partners (yes I tell them) ## How I tell partners (yes I tell them) 5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703740](#1308703740) - **[Dickwhitman79](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760583-dickwhitman79.html "View Dickwhitman79's Profile")** - [![Dickwhitman79's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760583-dickwhitman79.html "View Dickwhitman79's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760583-dickwhitman79.html) - Pending Email Verification - ![Pending Email Verification](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank2.gif) - Posts: 305 - Thanks: 62 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6760583) I’ve been lurking and participating in this forum for years and it has been a huge help to me in so many ways. So first , shoutout to [ @Skeptical\_One](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/profile/1704847-skeptical_one.html) for running this show for years. For a while I thought “I’ll just hide it and see if she says anything”. But that’s not how I roll. As I’ve mentioned , wifey and I are in the lifestyle and honesty is paramount in that realm and so I had to just put it out there. Now, I also have lots of partners one on one, and my feeling is if you’re worried or anxious about hiding your enhancement , it’s going to create a lot of head trash which leads to poor performance. So my approach is to own it. Here’s how I position it, so that it isn’t awkward. The women I’m with know I’m very health conscious and take good care of myself from and appearance standpoint. I routinely get vitamin injections, prp shots for my hair (to keep it thick) and Botox. I bring these things up with will be partners - none of which seem strange - rather, women seem to respect the fact that I take care of myself. I will weave into the conversation the fact that “hey you can even have shots in your dick, and well .. I’ve done that too”. Most women think it’s a bit crazy, and from there there’s no need to explain whether you had pmma, ha, etc. it doesn’t matter. Either your body is producing new collagen or you’ve added hyaluronic acid to beef up your cock. Once you’ve taken ownership and put it out there anxiety melts away and you can focus on putting your new and improved thickness to work - and I must say it’s been well received . That said , I always downplay it and say things like “I’m not sure if it worked or not”. Lol of course when their eyes roll back in their head I know that’s not the case. I’m not trying to come across as trying to tell people what to do, but I do think you can position this in a way that’s not weird or out of the norm and you’ll enjoy it more. Last edit: by [Dickwhitman79](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760583-dickwhitman79.html "View Dickwhitman79's Profile") Reason: Typos The following user(s) said Thank You: [Skeptical\_One](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile"), [Jacks10](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6699101-jacks10.html "View Jacks10's Profile"), [Setsuna](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6761087-setsuna.html "View Setsuna's Profile") Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2dlbmVyYWwtZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi8xMDE1Mzg0MS1ob3ctaS10ZWxsLXBhcnRuZXJzLXllcy1pLXRlbGwtdGhlbS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How I tell partners (yes I tell them) 5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703755](#1308703755) - **[Hyperbol](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760514-hyperbol.html "View Hyperbol's Profile")** - [![Hyperbol's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760514-hyperbol.html "View Hyperbol's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760514-hyperbol.html) - Pending Email Verification - ![Pending Email Verification](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank2.gif) - Posts: 320 - Thanks: 53 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6760514) I’ve never heard of anyone on here feeling the need to have to hide it. In fact, all accounts, including my own, are that women don’t notice. So, I’m sort of confused where the anxiety stems from. Also, I’ve never heard of having to be honest in that lifestyle to the point cosmetic procedures need to be fully disclosed. Doesn’t make sense. 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It’s none of their business. Unless you are married to someone while doing this. Girlfriends and future sex partners don’t need to know what I’ve done. Do women tell you they had a nose job, butt injections, buckel fat Removal, breast implants before sex? I highly doubt it. What I do with my body is no one business but mines. I don’t see the point of telling them anything. If it looks “natural” which most guys here swear up and down it looks, then why should one feel the need to say anything about it? I personally don’t think all enhanced penises look natural but that’s just me. Some do, and some don’t. Last edit: by [New1inch](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1727852-new1inch.html "View New1inch's Profile") Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2dlbmVyYWwtZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi8xMDE1Mzg0MS1ob3ctaS10ZWxsLXBhcnRuZXJzLXllcy1pLXRlbGwtdGhlbS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How I tell partners (yes I tell them) 5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703767](#1308703767) - **[PmmaFan](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760642-pmmafan.html "View PmmaFan's Profile")** - [![PmmaFan's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760642-pmmafan.html "View PmmaFan's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760642-pmmafan.html) - Pending Email Verification - ![Pending Email Verification](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank2.gif) - Posts: 529 - Thanks: 16 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6760642) There is really no reason to tell them!? Really no one will know that you have done some enhancement. It’s correct that the Pmma is a little bit like thick skin above the penis but [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/profile/1704847-skeptical_one.html) [ @Skeptical\_One](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/profile/1704847-skeptical_one.html) said it in such a great way: There are soooo many different types of dicks - the only thing what a girl will think: Ahh.. okay he is born that way Please watch the topic „Thickened skin - Please help,“ Skeptical_One had done a great post which relates to this topic Last edit: by [PmmaFan](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760642-pmmafan.html "View PmmaFan's Profile") Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2dlbmVyYWwtZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi8xMDE1Mzg0MS1ob3ctaS10ZWxsLXBhcnRuZXJzLXllcy1pLXRlbGwtdGhlbS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How I tell partners (yes I tell them) 5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703809](#1308703809) - **[Dickwhitman79](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760583-dickwhitman79.html "View Dickwhitman79's Profile")** - [![Dickwhitman79's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760583-dickwhitman79.html "View Dickwhitman79's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760583-dickwhitman79.html) - Pending Email Verification - ![Pending Email Verification](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank2.gif) - Posts: 305 - Thanks: 62 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6760583) If I was with a woman 4 months ago with 4 1/2 Inch Girth and now I’m close to 6, I think she’s going to know something has changed lol. I wasn’t trying to insist you tell all your partners, I was simply giving you a way of weaving it into a conversation. It’s been a non issue when I’ve brought it up and makes sex way more enjoyable than if I was worried about it Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2dlbmVyYWwtZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi8xMDE1Mzg0MS1ob3ctaS10ZWxsLXBhcnRuZXJzLXllcy1pLXRlbGwtdGhlbS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How I tell partners (yes I tell them) 5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703810](#1308703810) - **[Hyperbol](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760514-hyperbol.html "View Hyperbol's Profile")** - [![Hyperbol's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760514-hyperbol.html "View Hyperbol's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760514-hyperbol.html) - Pending Email Verification - ![Pending Email Verification](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank2.gif) - Posts: 320 - Thanks: 53 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6760514) Why can’t you tell her your Erection quality got better? Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2dlbmVyYWwtZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi8xMDE1Mzg0MS1ob3ctaS10ZWxsLXBhcnRuZXJzLXllcy1pLXRlbGwtdGhlbS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How I tell partners (yes I tell them) 5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703815](#1308703815) - **[unknow1948](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760610-unknow1948.html "View unknow1948's Profile")** - [![unknow1948's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760610-unknow1948.html "View unknow1948's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6760610-unknow1948.html) - Pending Email Verification - ![Pending Email Verification](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank2.gif) - Posts: 189 - Thanks: 19 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6760610) thats what im telling my ex when i fuck her again that and PE. especailly AFTER ROUND 3. i went from 4.9 or 4.8 to 6 meg and 5'8 BEG ..i'm surprised no one has said anything. my cousin says that girls arent really that aware of penis size so they ain't going to question. even tho my stats are pretty beef partners haven't asked Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9nZW5lcmFsLWZvcnVtL2dlbmVyYWwtZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi8xMDE1Mzg0MS1ob3ctaS10ZWxsLXBhcnRuZXJzLXllcy1pLXRlbGwtdGhlbS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How I tell partners (yes I tell them) 5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703818](#1308703818) - **[GoodDay](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6762273-goodday.html "View GoodDay's Profile")** - [![GoodDay's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6762273-goodday.html "View GoodDay's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/6762273-goodday.html) - Banned - ![Banned](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rankbanned.gif) - Posts: 33 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6762273) The time I went to my first HA session, I had a long term girlfriend and I just told her that I will make my dick a bit bigger. She accompanied me to the clinic and then was too shy to come into the clinic, giggled her way to a coffee shop and waited there. Well, honestly, I wouldn't tell any short encounters or even girlfriends without the topic coming up, because I mean, it's not that they gonna ask you this exact question and I have never had a girl wanted to talk with me about my dick ("hey honey, regarding your dick...") ![:lol:](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/emoticons/grin.png ":lol:") One time a hooker asked me if I had been operated on, but this was out of a weird conversation, I asked her if she has operated boobs and she replied if I have an "operated dick". I said no. On the other hand, I wouldn't lie to a long term girlfriend or wife if the topic would come up, I would even ask her to come with me to the clinic because, well, why not. 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