TOPIC: Size doesn't matter to women

Ok, Miracle. You're right that women look for the whole package, but only if they are looking for a long term relationship.
For one night stands, what I said is true. Size > technique

Just go to a swingers website and see what women are asking for. The majority wants a well-endowed man.

IMHO, these comparisons are incorrect because there are many variables in the equation. One of the best way to judge at women reactions to penis size is this: have A good lover have sex with his woman with his regular size penis then increase his penis Girth and/or length and see how she reacts. Most likely than not, the woman will prefer the larger size penis. I am talking about a reasonable increase in size, say by a .5" to 1.25" or so.

Many good opinions here, especially Miracle's (the whole package coupled with sexual prowess, not necessarily sheer size, is a consistent winner!), but I'll break down the answer to this oft-asked question in the simplest way possible:

Size is not important (at all) to a certain group of women, size is not important but can be a "bonus/perk" to another group of women, size is important but not a deal-breaker to another group of women, size is important but does not need to be a monster to another group of women, and size of well-endowment is necessary to some group of women. There. The answer ultimately depends with the woman in question. If it wasn't already apparent.

We make the mistake of offering a general "yes" or "no" to the question "does size matter," and it makes no sense to do so! The answer is sometimes yes, sometimes no, maybe, and "depends."

I actually don't think those videos prove too much.
Any guy who whips out his Cock and starts wacking it is going to get a reaction from a girl. Esp. if the girl has never seen you before.

Try recording girls reactions to your own junk if that is what you want to do.

Sure, I think for certain big guys and small guys will def. get an "abnormal" shock factor.

But I don't think it means automatically that you're going to be a good lover just because you've got a huge Cock. Once the girl gets over the initial shock I think its pretty much more about technique.

In a one night stand I'm sure the shock factor plays a big role in arousal.
That is my 2 cents.

size does matter to women. whoever said it didnt is wrong.... woman want a decent length and Girth.

dcpimpin12 wrote: size does matter to women. whoever said it didnt is wrong.... woman want a decent length and Girth.

But on this forum the perception of what is a decent length and Girth is totally warped.

What is decent length and Girth. Im 6,3 length with 5 Girth, and i make every girl cum. So is that decent size, or should I strive for more???

kapitalizam wrote: What is decent length and Girth. Im 6,3 length with 5 Girth, and i make every girl cum. So is that decent size, or should I strive for more???

What is your length though? thats makes a difference.

If we're going to discuss this, lets make sure we get things "correct". To second what Miracle said, size matters in different degrees to different women. Also, you need to take into consideration a variety of other factors. I'd like to underline one thing, and that is that to me, a mans confidence plays a huge role in a woman's sexual experience with a man. If a man believes that size matters and it boosts his confidence, I believe that will make the experience better for the woman. One thing that gets under looked by men who are worried about size is that their health matters quite a bit more than they think.

If a guy is overweight, or has bad breath etc etc - those things throw a woman off.

Having experienced both (being average and now being above average), I don't think it (size) matters nearly as much as I imagined it mattering. I remember reading somewhere that size matters more to men than it does to women. I think that is certainly true. Confidence and technique for sure matters more than I thought before and size matters less.

I wouldn't say that extra Girth hurts you though.

I guess my logic doesn't go anywhere at the end of the day *sigh*
Okay - it matters, but it matters less than I thought. But every woman is different.

I guess when a guy is worried about size, they think it is like 10 out of 1 to 10 in terms of importance. I think the reality is that it is like maybe a 5 or a 6 out of 10.

New1inch im actually 4,7 Girth right before the glance with 5 Girth midshaft... Length is 6,3. Today i had sex with a girl and she came in the first ten minutes while she was on top. Then we had sex again an she came in a different position, i gave her good forplay and i think thats what did it. Although i still think im small, is all in my head and will be for sure. But at the end of the day i always get the job done... I will be goong for Girth on future, im 100 percent is only for my personal satisfaction, as i beliee it has been for a lot of people on here... I also have an obsessive paranoia of checking my junk, thanks to porn and pe sites.. But is all good...

thanks Kap.. wish their was a website to learn good technique that everyone talk about. theres a great deal of info on oral but nothing about the actual intercourse for a guy to get the girl off. I haven't had much experience so I lack when it comes to the actual sex and go soft. Im pretty good at oral though.

hoddle10 wrote:

dcpimpin12 wrote: size does matter to women. whoever said it didnt is wrong.... woman want a decent length and Girth.

But on this forum the perception of what is a decent length and Girth is totally warped.

I want to share this with you: a friend of mine is married to a nice Asian lady. He has a good size Dick, about 6 EL by 5.5 EG. His wife always commented on how big he is and how she loved it even though she has a small tight vagina. One day, another friend of mine went to have dinner with them, they all got a little drunk and one thing led to another and they ended up having a three some. I know, this situation is messed up by MY standards, but here is the point. The wife had her husband first and she was moaning and groaning and having fun. Then The other guy entered her, now he has bigger size Dick and he has a lot bigger glans than her husband. The moment he entered her she screamed with joy and pain. Then she got to really like it and she kept saying; WOW, it is so big I love it, it is bigger than yours honey, I love it....

So she got to compare an immediate change in size and she liked the bigger penis. Draw your own conclusions. I have drown mine based on my own experiences with my ladies who had my original Girth and present PMMA Girth..

I do understand that there are more dynamics to this story, but it is worth sharing.

BTW, the two men are not friends anymore...

Mustang2020 wrote: I want to share this with you: a friend of mine is married to a nice Asian lady. He has a good size Dick, about 6 EL by 5.5 EG. His wife always commented on how big he is and how she loved it even though she has a small tight vagina. One day, another friend of mine went to have dinner with them, they all got a little drunk and one thing led to another and they ended up having a three some. I know, this situation is messed up by MY standards, but here is the point. The wife had her husband first and she was moaning and groaning and having fun. Then The other guy entered her, now he has bigger size Dick and he has a lot bigger glans than her husband. The moment he entered her she screamed with joy and pain. Then she got to really like it and she kept saying; WOW, it is so big I love it, it is bigger than yours honey, I love it....

So she got to compare an immediate change in size and she liked the bigger penis. Draw your own conclusions. I have drown mine based on my own experiences with my ladies who had my original Girth and present PMMA Girth..

I do understand that there are more dynamics to this story, but it is worth sharing.

BTW, the two men are not friends anymore...

But this Asian lady doesn't represent the norm. It's just not normal for a wife not only to engage in a 3sum, but to vocally express her lust for the new man/Dick. So sure, she might like it, but it doesn't represent a normal, healthy female demographic.

As men, if we find ourselves dating size queens and inconsiderate red-flag-types, then size may be of increasing importance. But if we are going to rely on anecdotal evidence, I can tell you through personal experience (I have plentiful female friends), magazine articles, online forums, etc, that the normal healthy demographic of women (likely the majority) don't prioritize phallic size the way us men envision they do. It's important for some yes, but it isn't a deal breaker, and often times, if she's into you, size may not be much of an issue at all (there are exceptions to the rule, I'm just speaking in generality).

No doubt some women prefer a larger size, I know many men who prefer a larger butt or larger boobs, but for many of them, it isn't a deal breaker, let alone a top priority. A cousin of mine is a total ass man but he married a woman with literally no ass. Apparently his "ass-man" status wasn't all that important. I'm sure it can work the same way for many women. Some wouldn't mind a larger penis but if they really love the guy, chances are they wont care.

Mustang2020 wrote: I want to share this with you: a friend of mine is married to a nice Asian lady. He has a good size Dick, about 6 EL by 5.5 EG. His wife always commented on how big he is and how she loved it even though she has a small tight vagina. One day, another friend of mine went to have dinner with them, they all got a little drunk and one thing led to another and they ended up having a three some. I know, this situation is messed up by MY standards, but here is the point. The wife had her husband first and she was moaning and groaning and having fun. Then The other guy entered her, now he has bigger size Dick and he has a lot bigger glans than her husband. The moment he entered her she screamed with joy and pain. Then she got to really like it and she kept saying; WOW, it is so big I love it, it is bigger than yours honey, I love it....

So she got to compare an immediate change in size and she liked the bigger penis. Draw your own conclusions. I have drown mine based on my own experiences with my ladies who had my original Girth and present PMMA Girth..

I do understand that there are more dynamics to this story, but it is worth sharing.

BTW, the two men are not friends anymore...

I think there must be far more to this story than meets the eye. Regardless of her or any other woman's opinion on size, I find it almost implausible that she would have reacted like that unless she intentionally wanted to hurt her husband. You'd have to be seriously stupid not to realize that something like that would seriously effect a man. In fact it would require a level of stupidity that, as I've said, is almost implausible.

Seriously, how many of us would have a threesome with 2 women and tell the one which is our partner that the other women has a much nicer feeling pussy? If we loved them, I bet not a single one of us is capable of such ignorant stupidity. Yet, if for some reason we had an ax to grind, it suddenly becomes more plausible. Hence I think there is more to this than meets the eye.