TOPIC: Escort vs GF

I know it sounds slightly crude but you could just go to an undeveloped country and pick up a girl looking for a better life.

This is what I was thinking but I'm not sure if it is true.
A good high pay job helps, but to buy women, not date (as you have no time).
I always see those personal trainers, or celebrity bums, or even unemployed guys with a criminal record get hot women - because they have the 'time' to invest in the relationship.
I don't want a leftover though.
Some of these escorts are damn hot - I would try to pick them up at a bar - so if I can 'guarantee' sex with them for almost the same price then why not.
But then I am worried this is bad long term. If I bang too hot women I'll never be happy with a not hot woman (which is what I will end up with as the hot ones are not hot forever lol).

I have had some fun banging hookers in the past, but it's ultimately it's bad for your state of mind.

Every chick I have banged and liked comes back to me max once. Then for whatever reason - drifts away. Country, other guy, whatever. I can't seem to keep anyone. I dont know why.
I have been to therapy even and am just told it will happen when it does.
Meanwhile, I'm not getting any younger, and I want to put my Cock in use lol.
I have used POF but mostly older women there. Tinder is better for me - younger crowd.
What does 'tarp that load' mean?

Online dating is becoming very very popular and for some folks, it is a must. Today's life style for many, time is limited for good ol' day dating. I have been reading a lot of online profiles of women looking for men. It seems like most of them are trying to "squeeze" a relationship in their busy life style. Men too, many of my friends tell me they are too "busy" to go out looking for women an they are all trying the online thingy. Again, "they" are trying to squeeze women in their busy schedules.

Today's social interaction between men and women is so different from years ago. Its all about "me" and is not about having love and companionship, generally speaking. People are busy buying stuff and working to pay for stuff. It ain't easy, it's a jungle out there!!!!

Dates are expensive bro period. Go to Backpage.com. I've been in the same situation as you and decided I'll chase my career and success first because women will always be there

Mustang2020 - its the exact same thing with British women!

I score easily in the US though. Probably because I have a British accent. Plus I find US women are more slutty than the rest.

Btw, the escort thing was extreme. I mean casual hookups too through Tinder etc.

Wise man once told me that "YOU CAN LOSE MONEY CHASING WOMEN BUT YOU CAN NEVER LOSE WOMEN CHASING MONEY"

Just banged a really hot chick.
And then I find out she has a bf.
And a dog.
Epic fail. Shit like this keeps happening.

Mustang2020 wrote: I never had hookers but if you go with one, pick up the nicest looking hot one and bang the hell out of her. You are paying for it so get the max bang for your hard earned buck, pun intended!

Again, IMHO...

Lmao! Mustang, you crack me up, Brother! Reminds me of my approach to rental cars!

Yes I agree. The thing is - I have really tried for a gf, its not happening. And I'm getting older. I'm not going to be banging these chicks when I'm 50 tbh. Given I have so much going on, may be worth doing it now.
But then I think if there are other issues with this approach.

I've never paid for sex but I think you are over thinking this. Rather than try and figure out if you should commit to being a pescatarian why don't you order a piece of fish and see if you like it while keeping your dating options open? but personally, if I was 27 I'd be paying for sex when I had to, not now.

Btw about the - I can't seem to find a gf (I'm 27) so have given up on that completely - you can't be serious? Unless you are planning on dying at 28 you have time and I would think you are better off having sex with someone you are really into - internet dating apps suck because there is no shared experience so it is more like an interview and it's hard to know if it even went well as so little information is capable of being exchanged. The most you can learn on a date like that is whether or not they have a nice ass, are dull-witted or smell bad. It's not really enough information to do anything with.

Don't people go to sex clubs anymore? When I was younger you just paid to get in the door and you had sex with anyone you wanted if they wanted to have sex with you. They were straight and gay people there. - Lastly if everyone tells you not to kiss a hooker, then I would not pay for sex. Someone who is too gross to kiss you can always find in the street, no?

I was doing my budget and as I've got a new good job, don't smoke/have other bad habits/waste money/eat a very clean and regular diet etc, I'm savings quite a bit of money which is nice.

I zoomed into how much I have been spending on dates, meeting women, coffee, drinks, drinks in my flat for when women come over and so on. I've been a regular tinder user and the 'good ones' typically don't bang me on the first date. If they do, I almost never see them again (out of the 100+ I've banged, about 5 have actually come back for seconds and about 3 I'm in touch with as a friend now).

I can't seem to find a gf (I'm 27) so have given up on that completely. All the women I like either are just visiting, have other life plans (e.g. study abroad, found someone else etc) and so on. The few that like me I'm not interested in after banging. And then you have everyone else.

I did the math and it seems like it would be cheaper (and perhaps better) to get a hooker per week, vs continue on trying with tinder. The quality of escorts is also generally better as they 'have' to keep quite fit and you know what you are getting (I've been pretty surprised at times with the tinder crowd - you can't really tell what you are getting until she is naked really and by then you just want to bang anyway).

I am doing a part-time Masters now too, and train a lot, and have a few hours in the weekend job as well as a full time job (Mon-Fri), so have limited time to waste.

Should I just bang hookers for now and then figure out what to do?

I am worried I will look back at 50 and regret not banging these women (money will come and go) but then I'm also worried about ending up alone....

My own experience has showed me that Most American women are not worth the efforts put into them for what you get out of them. Do not take this as an insult to your woman, it is exactly as i said: my own experience!!!

I travel overseas a lot so I have had little time dating in the US. In the last year or so, I have tried to date in the US and I tell ya...it SUCKS!!!

The women I have talked to or went out with had such an attitude of "entitlement" that even shocked me and I an not easily shocked! They think they are so much more of what they really are. The fat one, the ugly ones and worst of all; the pretty slim ones.

I decided to lower my standards and give some a chance to see what would happen. What a disaster! I took out a few who I would not even touch with your Dick and boy was I turned off by their looks and attitudes.

I can write pages about this situation. Needless to say, I enjoy overseas women more than any US woman I've ever dated. No, they are not hookers, I meet them on line and when travel I enjoy them and boy do they enjoy a foreigner!

I'd rather have 4-8 different foreign girls in a span of a few travel weeks, than have one fat attitude entitled US biatch for month at a time...LOL.

I never had hookers but if you go with one, pick up the nicest looking hot one and bang the hell out of her. You are paying for it so get the max bang for your hard earned buck, pun intended!

Again, IMHO...