TOPIC: My girlfriend opposes the PMMA procedure heavily

Ta Jog and yeah your right bout that

Welcome Heildall,

There is always risks with any surgery so your GF is right there. But....

[1] With your length and your mentality going in you'll be fine.

[2] It's your Dick not hers. Just saying.

[3] Is she going to be your wife someday? Big difference.

[4] Even if you decide not to do it your size is fine already. So it's not big deal.

CPW

hoddle, are the elevated risks only for aesthetics? No scarring leading to Necrosis, no hardness of lumps affecting EQ, curvature etc. These are the areas where there are no clear answers on the forum - even if I might not be bothered about the looks, might some hard lump obstruct the blood flow to the carvanosa affecting EQ or press on the veins, restricting draining and lead to Necrosis etc. ...

Hi all,

I have been ready to "jump" on the PMMA train for about a year now. The only reason I've not done it yet is my gf who heavily opposes the procedure. She has a strong opinion and mind-set that "everything will go straigth to hell" and my "Dick would be useless, mutilated and deformed" after the procedure and I'd be willing to end my life because of it.

I've been trying to explain that there are multiple ways of getting into this. Some guys want to get freakishly-big monster size and fastest way it is possible. Of course this is the most certain way to get into trouble with PMMA. My goals are actually pretty modest in my opinion and I prefer to do it in a slow & careful way rather than quick & dirty. My mid-section Girth is 4.5 to 4.7 inches and my end goal would be 5.5 to 5.7 inches in Girth.

I know what I am going in for and I've done my reading about the subject of PMMA. I am completely ok if there are going to be some aesthetic "issues" because of the procedure, I am really after the Girth which would give me peace of mind on this subject. The way I've planned my journey is that I'd go through it in a very moderate way. This means that all the rounds will be done with 10% and absolutely no more than 20cc's per session, I think 15cc would be enough actually.

This is absolutely killing me since I've been very insecure about my penile Girth since elementary school. This year I'll be turning to 30yo and would really like to get this off my back. This has been the number one anxiety and low-self esteem source for me so god damn long. I've been also on a psychotherapy 1+ year due my low self-esteem problems and things that have happened years ago. We're also touched the penis size subject with my therapist. I know myself enough to know that this is not going to go away if there is no concrete actions done (which PMMA would be).

I have always been self-councious about my Dick. Everytime I have to go to gym shower or something like that it kills me mentally to know that I am below average Girth. Especially when I've got the length (BPEL 7.75-8 inches). My penis is basicly the model example of a needle Dick. Lots of length but no Girth at all.

Any ideas how to deal with this and how to explain to her so that this really is something I am ready to go through and the risks are relatively low when doing it in a moderate and cautious way with good after-care?

Try some manual PE first, like pumping, it will give you atleast very temporary results (for up to one hour mb). If you both like the larger Girth you could take the next step in thinking about a procedure. Or just contuine manual PE.