TOPIC: advice about prolonging sexual Intercourse

No where did I say op had ed issues.

Taking deep and clean breaths can be done anytime without people knowing what your doing. You don't have to stop anything. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out.


No where did I say to stop anything and meditate (which means to stay focused or channel thoughts) it doesn't take a complete dumb ass to figure out that you can mediate while doing things. Meditation isn't always siting like Buddha humming away....

No where did I say stop and put numbing spray in right as your doing the deed. Put it on prior. It doesn't take a complete moron to figure that one out too. Never used it but I hear it helps lots of guys out.

You glossed over strengthening the pc muscle so you must agree on that issue.

The condom well I've never used one ever so can't say from experience but I hear it cuts down sensation.

Tantra and kamasutra well you agree those are legit.


I don't want to say your a dumb ass but figure it out man.

You can stroke all you want, I'll fuck every time.

Maybe I'm not hung like a horse but I can fuck like a stallion and that's why I always had a warm body next to me before my wife. More than 250 notches in less than one decade. I must have been doing something right.


I can tell you I never rubbed one out prior to a date after I took that lame ass advice once and had trouble keeping it up. I was maybe 14 years old at the time.

Rub one out fucking lame

J.cs8528 wrote: blogs.discovermagazine.com/seriouslyscie...st-pee/#.V2D2B5BHarU

If I were to have posted a comment on that website, my reply would be identical to Ricardo Talhadas. The article "study" involves seven women, which can barely be called a scientific study. I've been with well over 150 women, and just under 1% have been squirters. All have left lakes afterwards. None smelling or looking like pee. Take it from men who've actually swum in those waters, like me and Lakesfan.

lakingsfan35 wrote: My god lighten up a bit

No.

Thirty five years ago one could find 20-year old virgins. Now, at 20, they've already met one or two studs. Even if the studs used numbing spray, they wouldn't know it. They just make a comparism and think you're shit ...

Any patients please check with your doctor before experimenting with this next suggestion. I've had a lot of success using lidocaine spray. It helped keep me from shooting my load too soon (NUMBS YOUR DICK), but when it comes to endurance and stamina, a good bike ride, run, or hike will help improve cardiac output and if you push you fatigue threshold during exercise you can improve your stamina threshold in the bedroom.

-CHL

and i would have responded like John..and i have swum in the waters with two girls who were "squirters" and can' t say i remember any smell either.. I was just posting an article, my apologies if you dont agree with it.

Jcs8528 wrote: and i would have responded like John..and i have swum in the waters with two girls who were "squirters" and can' t say i remember any smell either.. I was just posting an article, my apologies if you dont agree with it.

No need to apologize, jcs. Just sharing my two cents, like the rest of us. We, older guys, may sound judgmental, but we do speak from extensive experience. Bringing this back to topic, if you're fucking her and you think you're about to come, you can always pull out and leverage other techniques, think tongue, lips and fingers. Lakesfan is spot on. To make it even more titillating, you can smack her in the ass when you pull out and tease her by saying something like, "Look at you, loving that Dick!" Makes her a little self-conscious because women are always complaining about never getting enough foreplay. But what it really does is buy you some time, while making her feel amazing and helping you slowly improve and elongate your skills. The next time you sink it in, she'll love it even more.

Why would I suggest what actually works? Gee, I dont know.


Your suggestion of hitting it, and hitting it again will not help with the stigma of being a minute man. If you will even stop to realize your method is exactly the same as mine with regard to the male. What is different, is I am saving the EMBARRASSMENT to the male. Your assuming all women will understand and give respect just because he goes for a 2nd time.

How do I say this?.... IT DOESNT WORK THAT WAY.

But, let me say it again.... the way it DOES work: is this.

If you jack off in 60 seconds, your 2nd attempt at jacking off will be longer UNLESS you are the rare exception to the rule, which often time we are not.

Im tired of ranting about this, you obviously wont see it my way and clear logic tells us your way will get most guys embarrassed about being a minute man which will compound the problem even further and reduce the % chance he'll be able to get it up the second time.

Don't buy any pill or any fleshlight. I have my own way to determine whether I cum fast or not. I'm sure everyone else has there ways too. Strangely I found out by drinking water and holding my pee I have stronger orgasms. But through this I realized that if i pee then I will not be able to cum at all until I have too pee again. I know this may sound like bull but I didn't kno how to cum and had my first orgasm at 16 so I needed some way to help. I kid you not if i want too have long lasting sex I pee, and if i wanna cum quickly I drink some water, not a lot but enough to help me and in no time I cum.

@cpw I'm only 26. Maybe most the chicks I've been with didn't care or at least not seemed bummed. I've had a decent amount of flings that lasted 2 months and in a handful of them, I pulled the trigger way early. They didn't seem to mind, came back for more.

@LA35 I dunno about this new writing style you've acquired brah...its hard to follow along with.

My 'wife to be' was 20 years old when we started dating. That was 35 years ago. She had some experience. Two other guys at least. In fact, her prior boyfriend was supposed to have been 9". I found that out the first year we were together. I was devastated. He tried to get her back for the next few years but she had no interest. Was he really 9"? I don't know. Reading all the threads on this forum I now wonder if he was that big. Who knows? I don't care. Clearly he was bigger than me. I'm pretty sure I busted quickly the time but it didn't matter. She came back for more. Back then it was more than just the initial performance. Have relationships changed that much? Really?

So if I was on the dating scene today and I got too excited and busted fast then the lady wouldn't be interested in me? Like that defines me? Or a possible relationship? I really don't understand that. That's what it sounds like everyone is saying or implying here. Seems really superficial. Sucks.

@jd123,
If what you are referring to is the spacing, it is the difference is between the tablet and the phone. It comes out real weird when I use my phone to respond.

I had a lot of people say im weird because I take long to cum but I think it has its ups and downs. Also i think that the more you have sex with the same person or maybe anyone it's easier for you to cum once you know your "technique" you do when you wanna cum.

@lakingsfans35
The best answer ever

Really now think about what you are saying Hulk. I was not saying any lame ass alpha bullshit. I was having some

obvious fun with an easy to see message in it.



Think about it, jacking off before is the same as fucking it twice.

Once you shoot a load it will take just as much effort to hit it twice as the first time

wether that is a solo mission or with a chick. I would much rather shoot my load in a wet tight hole TWICE

than once solo into a towel and once in her.


I would rather be a 2 pump chump once then take an hour for round two, than bust a nut in a towel and

possibly be a 2 pump chump 3 hours later. Then what? If someone has performance anxiety that may

make it worsen. Then a poor fool has no chance of getting it up for a 3rd time that night

You successfully wasted 2 loads in 2 minutes. For what, an old wives tale.



You want an honest answer, here is one. Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. By a book and study

tantric. Practice a mild form of meditation. Increase cardiovascular system.



There was a ton of obvious humor in my response. Some people have no humor and cant read between

the lines. So here. Maybe I should have said this.

Hit it. If the night is short do other things and hit round two. Maybe go from zero to hero. It cant hurt to honestly say

omg you are so hot/tight/sexy I couldnt help myself. Lets focus on you for a bit..... service her some and hit it again,


I dunno man, personally I can't remember when Ive been a 2 minute man except for back in hs when I

was first getting laid. I was given the same advice, jerk off before. It didn't help but made round 2 impossible for it

was actually round 3 for the night due to the pre date solo mission.

It was bad advice back then and still is 35 years later






My god lighten up a bit