--- title: "Women encouraging you to get fat... why does this keep happening? - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "So in this last year I've been really busy. I got a masters degree, moved twice, worked 3 jobs etc... Needless to say my weight... - Page 2" url: "https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/love-lust-vanity/7790396-women-encouraging-you-to-get-fat-why-does-this-keep-happening.html?start=15" date: "2026-08-06T13:03:42+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: Women encouraging you to get fat... why does this keep happening? ## Re: Women encouraging you to get fat... why does this keep happening? 10 years 8 months ago [\#1289864134](#1289864134) - **[Mustang2020](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715850-mustang2020.html "View Mustang2020's Profile")** - [![Mustang2020's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715850-mustang2020.html "View Mustang2020's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715850-mustang2020.html) - Moderator - ![Moderator](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rankmod.gif) - Posts: 1795 - Thanks: 18 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1715850) > Sizemic wrote: Oh no worries, regardless of what she may prefer, I'm returning to my ripped healthy self. Recently got a new job and a new loft/condo in the ![heart](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/emoticons/heart.png "heart") of Toronto's downtown... I've worked too hard to get where I am to not take care of myself. Bingo!!!!!! You will get your mojo back asap with this new attitude....Good luck buddy! Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5Lzc3OTAzOTYtd29tZW4tZW5jb3VyYWdpbmcteW91LXRvLWdldC1mYXQtd2h5LWRvZXMtdGhpcy1rZWVwLWhhcHBlbmluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Women encouraging you to get fat... why does this keep happening? 10 years 8 months ago [\#1289850567](#1289850567) - **[Mustang2020](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715850-mustang2020.html "View Mustang2020's Profile")** - [![Mustang2020's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715850-mustang2020.html "View Mustang2020's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715850-mustang2020.html) - Moderator - ![Moderator](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rankmod.gif) - Posts: 1795 - Thanks: 18 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1715850) > Sizemic wrote: Hmmm yeah I totally get that. I didn't call her out really. I just tried to reiterate that I want to lean up for health reasons. Gaining so much weight so fast you can pretty much guarantee that it's all fat. I have high blood pressure now as well. Not good to have at 27. I get what you mean SO, I definitely think that's what she's thinking, even if she wouldn't admit to it. I think for now I won't call her out or anything... But if she really starts sabotaging my diet again, I might bring it up that that's what I think she's doing. Dude, Just helping you out if you want me to My own impression of you through your posts here was that you were a sex god and had control over everything...now, if you don't mind me saying it and I can delete if you want, you ave lost the "edge"..... You are too young to be overweight with high blood pressure and be controlled by your woman. take it back Sizemic...your name says it all Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5Lzc3OTAzOTYtd29tZW4tZW5jb3VyYWdpbmcteW91LXRvLWdldC1mYXQtd2h5LWRvZXMtdGhpcy1rZWVwLWhhcHBlbmluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Women encouraging you to get fat... why does this keep happening? 10 years 8 months ago [\#1305246682](#1305246682) - **[Wrx904](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/4613790-wrx904.html "View Wrx904's Profile")** - [![Wrx904's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/4613790-wrx904.html "View Wrx904's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/4613790-wrx904.html) - General - ![General](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 2 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4613790) Yea, my wife tells me all of the time that I am too skinny. I'm 5'11' 195lbs and 9.7% BF. I personally think that She is nervous that other women find me attractive. I also tell her that increased visceral fat leads to lower testosterone and higher estrogen. So if she wants me to continue fucking her for hours then I need to hit the gym lol. Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5Lzc3OTAzOTYtd29tZW4tZW5jb3VyYWdpbmcteW91LXRvLWdldC1mYXQtd2h5LWRvZXMtdGhpcy1rZWVwLWhhcHBlbmluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Women encouraging you to get fat... why does this keep happening? 10 years 8 months ago [\#1289840893](#1289840893) - **[Mustang2020](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715850-mustang2020.html "View Mustang2020's Profile")** - [![Mustang2020's Avatar](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715850-mustang2020.html "View Mustang2020's Profile") - [ Offline](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715850-mustang2020.html) - Moderator - ![Moderator](https://j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rankmod.gif) - Posts: 1795 - Thanks: 18 - [ ](https://j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1715850) > Skeptical One wrote: My theory/opinion is that the chubbier you get, the less competitive it becomes for her. Despite women appreciating a hard bod, they aren't as "visually-demanding" as males are and can overlook flaws in physique if they can get just about everything else. She sees you as a catch and is content with your extra pounds because if you were in the absolute prime, she knows she'd have a much greater threat from outside forces (i.e. other women) to her relationship with you. It's in her head, despite your reasons for wanting to get fit again. I would NOT call her out on said-theory, and to some extent it's not even all that surprising. > > At least that's what I suspect from the outside looking in. Almost exactly my thinking...BUT, I'd call her out for sure!!!! 165 lbs to 220 lbs is not healthy for any one, me thinks I had lost over 14 lbs and I got all positive comments from every one including girls I had dated before and I was never really fat by any measures.... I'd say it is not healthy to be eating junk food and gaining weight. If you feel bad about yourself image, then you must listen to your inner self. Lose the weight and do not listen to your girl...my opinion of course... Please [Log in](https://j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly9qNC5waGFsbG9ib2FyZHMuaW5mby9mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5Lzc3OTAzOTYtd29tZW4tZW5jb3VyYWdpbmcteW91LXRvLWdldC1mYXQtd2h5LWRvZXMtdGhpcy1rZWVwLWhhcHBlbmluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. 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