TOPIC: Sex ONCE a Month

Lilaforlife. Allow me to ask you a question that my spike my interest. How attractive WERE you to your husband? When the opportunity was there would you bang him everyday?

Mustang2020 wrote:

Lilaforlife wrote:

Sick Boy wrote: Lilaforlife. Allow me to ask you a question that my spike my interest. How attractive WERE you to your husband? When the opportunity was there would you bang him everyday?

I'm not sure if you meant attractive or attracted to my husband but I'll go with what you said. I'm an attractive person. Not being vain or anything but its true. I got looked at all the time but never by my husband. If he had allowed me to I would have had sex as many times as he would let me. At least like 3-4 times a day would've been ideal. For many years though we did it once every month or 2....and not by my choosing. It's better now though thank god!

WOW...you stayed with him for many years with sex once a month and you wanted it 3-4 times a day and you are attractive? OK, what does he have other than low sex drive that kept you from leaving him being such a sexual woman? Intelligent minds want to know

Honestly he was the first guy I've been with sexually and I really think that has a lot to do with it. I'm 24 and we've been together 9 years. Other than that him being a good man with a sense of humor really made me want to stay. I hoped one day he would change and it took 9 years but he has. He's still not on my level and I don't think he ever will be but thats okay

I recently read a post by a poor fellow in the Plunge website about he having sex with his fiancee once a month, sometimes less. My response to him was so hard and direct it got deleted. Anyways, here is the thread link www.theplunge.com/groomduties/what-if-se.../?tag=ask-the-expert reply with your point of view below.

"SHE ONLY WANTS TO HAVE SEX ONCE A MONTH."I love my fiancee and we are really compatible in most aspects in our life. The only major problem we seem to have is how often to have sex, my sex drive is off the chart and I would love to have sex multiple times a day every day. Yet my fiancee is fine with about once a month or more time between sex. I know sex isn't everything in a relationship and I don't expect her to have sex every day but this is starting to make me wonder if she even wants me anymore. To top it off I can't help but be attracted to other women with my needs not being met.