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#  TOPIC: So, having a big(er) dick doesn't matter if nobody wants to sleep w/ you

##  Re: So, having a big(er) dick doesn't matter if nobody wants to sleep w/ you

   11 years 10 months ago [\#1284351462](#1284351462)

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> Restoration wrote: I removed most of this... I calculated that I hooked up with 40-50 guys since the surgery healed in Jan....

Hi Restoration,

What do you mean by hooking up with 40-50 guys? Just connected/chatted or...

Anyway - you probably had too high expectations and that can bring some disappointments especially on such a condensed time like holiday when every day counts. I don't know your circumstances but somehow I don't think hooking up with anyone through an app is deemed to have lasting success. Do you see a holiday as your prime season through out the year? I can't say I've ever met anybody on holiday.

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##  Re: So, having a big(er) dick doesn't matter if nobody wants to sleep w/ you

   11 years 10 months ago [\#1284352742](#1284352742)

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 I don't want to be rude or unsympathetic, I know it is your life and I am sorry your holiday didn't go as planned but that is some entertaining stuff! I have been with sane woman for over 20 years so I have no clue about single life. The Osama guy must have photo shopped his pics. Lol. I understand wanting to give new tool a go; I thought I was going to tear my wife a new one after R2 and it was more than .5 Inch bigger because I waited only 4 days and she didn't even notice. Lol. Boy was I surprised because I could definitely feel the difference. I guess after a few kids it going to take at least 6 Inch Girth to really make a difference. I think as long as she gets off size doesn't matter much and I've always been able to get her to finish line. Really popped my bubble though

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##  Re: So, having a big(er) dick doesn't matter if nobody wants to sleep w/ you

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 Interesting how social norms play a large part in what is funny.

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##  Re: So, having a big(er) dick doesn't matter if nobody wants to sleep w/ you

   11 years 10 months ago [\#1284456180](#1284456180)

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> Puell75 wrote: I am sorry your holiday didn't go as planned but that is some entertaining stuff!

Hahaha - good. That's the only way I know how to deal with it. I used to actually do stand up comedy for years...and even in this other country too where I go on vacation. I totally killed it there which was a huge surprise since their sense of humor is different, but this angle works well (i.e., my life is fucked up &amp; we're just gonna laugh about it - kinda joan rivers &amp; her vagina falling on the floor w/ age, etc...except I don't use age yet).

I wrote a whole bit about getting my penis enlarged in TJ - but I never had the Balls to use it yet bc the scene is too small and I don't want the entire city knowing overnight. I'm still on the fence about it. There are too many funny things about the ordeal to not talk about it.

I had sex w/ like 10-12 guys since I got back, so I feel better now. And it's been VERY easy...and now I'm back to a few saying "I was so surprised you were into me / so surprised you hit on me" etc... so THANK GOD! (Of course there were a dozen rejections, but a 1:1 ratio is much better than a 1:1000000 ratio!!) My vacation was cursed, and I think I was too tan and had too much botox / filler - and just looked bizarre. I showed my family friend a pic and she's like wtf is up w/ your face (looked like puffy steroid face that was shiny from botox. Botox and tanning do NOT MIX cuz it makes you look like a shiny plastic doll since the skin cant contract normally from the tanning). It settled down now &amp; everyone's back to treating me normally...including one major clinger and wants to be my wife or something...the recent texts are borderline disturbing for a one hour hook up...and he can't fucking spell.

Ugh. Can't be ugly. Can't be pretty.

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