TOPIC: What size counts as adequate, in your opinion.

Last thing / this morning my wife told me my Dick is "scary big". She said "it causes a lot of friction"

I am only around 5.75 - 6.1" EG.

So for some I guess that is big enough/too big.

But as another commentor said it depends on the woman. I dated a Korean woman for whom 5.0 eg was def. big enough / too big.

Also I guess the woman's mood... Some days I'm sure she can handle it.

But Skeptical One, do you think that the tight woman with whom a below average Girth would have been sufficient would have enjoyed a thinner penis as much as she enjoyed yours (assuming that she did) ?

I honestly have no idea what size is "adequate" as there are too many others factors involved. Sex is just way too complex. I believe if you had the right attitude about it, 4x4 would be fine. But I don't have a good attitude about it, and worry a lot about size. Maybe you could be so small that they can't feel anything, or maybe too big that you hurt them, but that is penis size discussion cliche. "As long as you aren't tiny or gigantic, it's fine". We've all heard this. Many guys on here report differences in sex when they go up in Girth. From reading it seems going from say 4.75 to 5.5 eg can be a game changer, but going from 5.5 to higher, the difference is not as pronounced. Maybe the sex truly is better. Hard for me to say. I'm a rare case where I've gone down in Girth a bit, maybe .25 to .50. The three girls I've been with since the change who were with me before report no difference. And though I can tell a difference just in how I feel because it's me, sex still feels pretty much the same. Of course I get paranoid and think, "maybe they aren't moaning quite as much, maybe they aren't orgasming as hard", I'll never really know for sure.

Skeptical One wrote:

anon1 wrote: Skeptical One you went from 3.5 to 4.5 to 5.5. Those are three landmark sizes. From thin, to adequate, to thick.

What were your overall experiences like with each of those three sizes? I think it would be fascinating to get that kind of insight.






@dancewithdragons: I agree that 6.2 Girth is probably well above ideal for most women. I would bet you were the thickest out of those hundred guys. Hehe.

Yes from Snugger Fit to Magnums, definitely a journey (mostly psychological). I intend on getting to that on my progress report that I never update. Suffice it to say, it was once a mental burden, and now I hardly think of size, despite the fact that I'm still on the short side length-wise. I've been enjoying sex without hangups and have actually found other aspects of life more pressing for once (physical fitness, career outlook, etc) lol. I can still get a little self-conscious about my Flaccid but that may have to do with the fact that I'm a Grower, no matter how much PMMA product you put in there.

Surreal. Crazy to think though, where I would be if it weren't for my enhancements. Even more surreal that I was absolutely adamant that I'd find a solution to my perceived dilemma, and somehow, some way, I have.

Ditto

Mudball wrote: A well trimmed finger !

LMAO... ever notice a lesbian's fingernails...?