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#  TOPIC: Almost in tears.. I think I've found the solution to my ugly Penis problem.

##  Re: Almost in tears.. I think I've found the solution to my ugly Penis problem.

   11 years 1 month ago [\#1287759526](#1287759526)

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 Yup, I agree.

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##  Almost in tears.. I think I've found the solution to my ugly Penis problem.

   11 years 1 month ago [\#1287757488](#1287757488)

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 If you've been following me in the past on my PE Journey you would know that I have a big hang up about my penis. I was born with hypospadias and got corrected when I was a baby. Google search it if you haven't heard of it. I've come to find out that its not that very uncommon. I'm surprised on one else on here has it. One of the bad side effects with that is being born with a smaller peen and glans. I lucked out that I'm not micro but I am smaller and my glans and peephole don't look like every other guy. Any who that is not why we're here. I'm talking the cosmetic part of the ordeal.

The surgery left me with a mangled chopped meat looking penis. On top of that bumps grow up the side of the shaft of the penis. On the top of the penis it looks fine but underneath just looks completely fucked up. Then i have a flap of skin on the sides that sticks out. Imagine pulling a piece of your skin up and it stays that way. My skin is permanently like that in that spot. This has ruined my sex life. I'm 28 years old and only been with 1 and a half girls. I say half because I never finished with the second one. she was my girlfriend for a year and we NEVER had sex. I think it was due to the look and size of my penis and she just stuck around because she was comfortable with me. What really sucks is she got pregnant 1 month after going back with her ex which I believe she was cheating on me with already.

I've been searching for years on what can be done to fix this I knew it had to be a way. I was searching ugly penis problems online like I always do and I came across a post in yahoo answers. Theres actually a way to put a tissue expander into the penis for about 3-8 weeks to expand the good skin and then once the skin is stretched the cut off the botched area and connect the newly expanded tissue. The good news is this was performed on other hypospadias patients such as my self. This may seem a little over the top procedure to some but when I read this article its like this weight was lifted. Like there may be a solution to my problem that I though was hopeless. I think My summer will be filled with research of this procedure more and speaking with doctors that can perform this. Maybe use Pmma to smooth out any imperfect indentions underneath like they do in the face. I'm very excited about this. I've provided some pics below of my penis. first pic is of how normal it looks at the top and the rest is of all the imperfections I've mentioned above. This could really be a life changer for me.

Link of Article. Short read: [ www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22014594](http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22014594)

Edit: Would like to add also because of the hypospadias my penis is shaped funny and the head is not aesthetic with the shaft. Thats makes me even more intimidated to show it out of fear that it looks so different to what their used to seeing hopefully this procedure fixes that. Pics below.

Top looks normal

Now underneath you can see the skin looks as if its sliced up and has this weird shape of the shaft and glans. Urethra hole is large and looks flat underneath with no real glans closure like a normal penis. Along the shaft has raised bumps on the sides and you can see that skin flap I mentioned on the ride side that pokes out.

When soft you can see that its oddly shaped with this indention at the top. You can also see the bunched up piece of scarred skin poking from the side.

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##  Re: Almost in tears.. I think I've found the solution to my ugly Penis problem.

   11 years 1 month ago [\#1287766211](#1287766211)

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> Dance With Dragons wrote: Hulk speaks the truth, for the love of God go lay some pipe man. As Daniel Tosh once said, you gotta plow a 4 to appreciate an 8; now drop those standards till some woman is ready to swallow for you and then move up gradually to someone worth the whole cinnabun and not just the jizzy syrup topping.
>
> Sincerely.
>
> Also, if my SO is reading this, you're worth the whole bun sweetie.

Lol.. Nice one. Maybe I'll test things out this Saturday and see what happens. Maybe pick up some fugly or fatty to get things going.. Lol

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##  Re: Almost in tears.. I think I've found the solution to my ugly Penis problem.

   11 years 1 month ago [\#1287759835](#1287759835)

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 I can see the glans looks different on the underside, but not in a bad way. Honestly I think you look fine and I really mean that. Unless size is a big problem I would avoid PMMA as the results are unpredictable in terms of aesthetics. Your penis looks more natural than many of the PMMA enhancements we see here. Dr Gary Alter is definitely the guy you should visit. He has worked on guys with really bad issues and has an excellent reputation. Since he does not do penis enlargements he is not discussed on this site that often but in your case he is the perfect person. I think he will discourage you from surgery since your penis looks pretty good, but he will let you know what options are available. Dr Reed in Miami is also an option, but I would stick with Dr Alter if possible as Dr Reed is getting pretty old. Avoid Dr Elist ! Keep us posted and Best of luck.

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##  Re: Almost in tears.. I think I've found the solution to my ugly Penis problem.

   11 years 1 month ago [\#1287758843](#1287758843)

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> Dance With Dragons wrote: Dr. Gary Alter should be at the top of your list

Thanks DWD.. I will contact him in the morning. I wonder if insurance would cover this if its correcting a real medical procedure.

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##  Re: Almost in tears.. I think I've found the solution to my ugly Penis problem.

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> New1inch wrote: Thanks bro.. I definitely have o get my sex game up... I haven't had much experience since I've avoided sex or even talking to girls because of my issues with the look of my junk.

 I have to say New1inch, your Dick looks fine to me. A lot of guys on this board would kill to have that size and shape (imperfections and all). I mean this from the sincerest of places. I think a lot of this issue is in your head.
At the same time, I know I trump you and most everybody else with dysmorphic issues...
Just trying to help

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