--- title: "How BIG should we go? Honestly... - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "Back in June 2011 I posted a thread on the old forum called: "How thick should one go???" NOW almost 2 years later I think this... - Page 4" url: "https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/general-phalloplasty-discussion-archive/6280995-how-big-should-we-go-honestly.html?start=45" date: "2026-08-06T16:55:32+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: How BIG should we go? Honestly... ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1288272335](#1288272335) - **[thehulk](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/2015344-thehulk.html "View thehulk's Profile")** - [![thehulk's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/2015344-thehulk.html "View thehulk's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/2015344-thehulk.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 480 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2015344) Yea, you need to stop. The issue is no longer your problem (not sure it ever was). Your wife, respectfully needs Vaginal surgery to correct the issue. There's a stopping point, and you blew right through it. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1288314834](#1288314834) - **[Want\_More](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1740545-want-more.html "View Want_More's Profile")** - [![Want_More's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1740545-want-more.html "View Want_More's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1740545-want-more.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 25 - Thanks: 0 - - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1740545) I have decided to take down my content from this forum. Unfortunately for every well researched and informed PE patient, there are hundreds or even thousands of members who lurk, but don't post and will not fully educate themselves, or those who would read 25-50 stories on-line about how this or that procedure screwed up what was once an average sized, very healthy penis, into a scarred, shrunken nightmare. Then they see one story of a satisfied patient and that is the only thing they'll see in order to convince themselves that they will be one of the "lucky" ones. Thank you for welcoming me, and I appreciate being able learn from all of your experiences, but I only wish I hadn't posted. I'm going back to lurking. If you are a member who may have seen my story and you think the implant is for you, I implore you to do all of your homework, and then sleep on it before you make any decision concerning your Dick. A healthy, perfectly working penis is so much better than a non-functioning one. If you are single, then especially the implant should never be in the equation, unless you understand that for the rest of your single life you will have to explain to every lover that you have a silicone implant in your penis to make it bigger. The implant will always be noticeable to anyone who touches your penis with their hands or mouth. If you're cool with that then so be it, but it is something that should be considered. You only have one Cock. Whatever your issue is Fing up your Dick will only compound it. Bye Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1277506520](#1277506520) - **[jlmb](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1725729-jlmb.html "View jlmb's Profile")** - [![jlmb's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1725729-jlmb.html "View jlmb's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1725729-jlmb.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 294 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1725729) I think another thing worth mentioning that soreness from sex isn't just due to size, but the type and ferocity of sex performed. I think in a ongoing relationship and less "showy" sex, a larger Girth is okay, while with one-night stands and hookups where there's less familiarity and perhaps more ferocity, you might get complaints or lack of pure positive feedback. I'm not saying regular monogamous sex can't be ferocious, I just think its more mutually considerate. Female porn actors have to deal with a lot of rough sex, for long periods of time, in weird positions, its not really natural and they're obviously going to not look forward for massive guys. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1277489370](#1277489370) - **[thehulk](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/2015344-thehulk.html "View thehulk's Profile")** - [![thehulk's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/2015344-thehulk.html "View thehulk's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/2015344-thehulk.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 480 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2015344) When I first started Dr Guinta put it in my head that I could have a 7.5" Girth so I took that and ran with it. I eventually reduced my goal to 6.75 and sat on that till I had my procedure. Once I reached 6.7 with swelling I quickly realized that it was too big. During my lowest measurement I recorded a 6.45" Girth and was very pleased. Since I have gained even more than post swelling. I have measured 6.8 (current) but my other measurements have increased making it proportionate which has helped with aesthetics. My wife actually loves the new size, and while she admits to being sore she says its perfect. I tend to agree as the sex is more enjoyable for both parties. This isn't a one size fits all argument, life is diverse and will only continue getting more so. The size that was once desireable is no longer the max. Because only those patients who viewed it as a last resort werr getting the virtually unknown procedure. More and more patients with larger starting sizes are starting to skew the lines. I included myself in this category. But its those numbers that make new members feel like they have to have the 6"+. Perception is reality. Just because one man views another as having a large penis does not mean he perceives his self as being large. We are different. That makes us great! 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Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1287991515](#1287991515) - **[Eightbysix416](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/4073304-eightbysix416.html "View Eightbysix416's Profile")** - [![Eightbysix416's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/4073304-eightbysix416.html "View Eightbysix416's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/4073304-eightbysix416.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 3 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4073304) My apologies for entering this thread apparently uninformed. I feel I need to intrude because I was under the distinct impression that legitimate medical/surgical options regarding increasing Dick size were either extremely dangerous and prone to failure or were simply myth. Its something I've literally dreamed about for years and to hear that its actually possible is... Amazing. I'm saving up already... I'm already 8" long with a 6" circumference and realistically should just be happy with what I've got and shut up... Its something I've wanted for years though and if the possibility to get bigger via some procedure/surgery exists, consequences be damned, I'm in. Can I ask where I might find information about this procedure? I would very much appreciate any suggestions. Just as an aside, I'm not trolling or bragging. I would just very much like to be able to look at myself and be happy with what I see. Thank you again. 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Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1288246243](#1288246243) - **[Bigben](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1930204-bigben.html "View Bigben's Profile")** - [![Bigben's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1930204-bigben.html "View Bigben's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1930204-bigben.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 241 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1930204) Thank you for the very wise advice. It is easy to attribute many of our problems in life due to an insecurity like penis size. When in all reality it was really abuse by our caregivers, or in this case your older sister, that planted the seed that we are not enough. I have to ask though are you happy with Dr Elist ? I have never met the guy, but many here consider him a sociopath. Most implant patients report horrific results. I am not trying to stir the pot, but rather just get your view of his work and reputation ? Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1277627620](#1277627620) - **[Skeptical\_One](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile")** - [![Skeptical_One's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/avatars/resized/size144/users/avatar1704847.png?1781856569)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 4979 - Thanks: 613 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1704847) > CrazyGreggs wrote: I think you should go as large as you feel compelled to. Hell its a life we only get to live once, and if enlarging your penis makes you happy then do it. I have been in manual penis enlargement for 8 months and gained one Inch in that time. Now looking at surgery as well. I love it! Yes, except that there are consequences to "going as large as you feel compelled to." If there were no risks with penis enlargement methods, then hell, why wouldn't every man pursue a larger unit, even for the hell of it. Fact is, in this "one life we have to life," our penis is incredibly important to us, and attempts at enlarging it have not always had desirable results. In other words, penis enlargement (surgery specifically) isn't for everyone, and even manual penis enlargement has had its fair share of victims... and that's a sobering truth. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1277490918](#1277490918) - **[messageman](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1722700-messageman.html "View messageman's Profile")** - [![messageman's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/avatars/resized/size144/users/avatar1722700.jpg?1309009799)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1722700-messageman.html "View messageman's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1722700-messageman.html) - Moderator - ![Moderator](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rankmod.gif) - Posts: 738 - Thanks: 10 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1722700) Sizemic Great topic for a thread . I believe that most my motivation stems from psychological issues . Back when I was just starting out sexually I was at least average but somehow convinced that I just didn't measure up. Coincidentally, that's how I was in most other avenues in my life at the time...academics, sports, popularity , etc. In retrospect, I was above average in most areas but I had an overwhelming sense of inferiority. I believe that most of this had to do with my father who, though loving in many ways, made it clear that He didn't feel I measure up to the rest of the family (or society in general). Somehow I equated (with the help of porn and social pressures) that a good male lover was equated with the size of his Dick. As a young man in his late teens and early twenties my sexual performance (technique and EQ) were negatively affected by these pressures, and as a result I embarked on my "PE journey"....Something that would become an obsession over the following two decades. I have gone from 6.3 inches (length) by 5 inches (Girth) to 8 inches (length) by 7.5 inches (Girth) and everywhere in between. I have slept with scores of women (well over 50) , and believe I am in a very suitable role to voice an opinion on whether size matters and how big is "too big". First of all though, for me, having a large penis size has always been a huge turn-on and confidence booster for me. This has in turn improved my confidence and excitement with sex immeasurably. This point (for me) cannot be underestimated because much (most) of sex is in the brain. And when I am turned on and excited, so is my partner...and magical things do happen. Regarding the ideal length... This reminds me of the old saying, "how long is the ideal piece of string?" It really depends on the case, and in this case, it's your partner. Currently I am 8 inches Erect. I actually measured it the other day when I had a full hard-on while watching porn). I usually (obsessively) measure "stretched length", but thought, "why not do a conventional measuring, for ol' time's sake?" Just looking at the 8 Inch increment aligned with my penis head made me feel like I did when I graduated from college. An immense feeling of accomplishment, with sporadic images of all the highs and lows of my PE journey dancing around my head. Well, how do the women like my 8 Inch penis? Well, judging from the only partner I have now...She loves it. She is in her early 30s and has a child, and she could probably classified as a "size queen". One thing I think is interesting to note. A few months ago, my length increased (suddenly) about 1/4 of an Inch. I have always continued to do manual stretching and have worn an all-day-stretcher about 4 hours a day. For the longest time I had no increase in length, but then suddenly...presto, there was an increase. This just goes to show you guys that perseverance pays off! Anyway, after I had hit about 8 inches, I was (suddenly) able to easily hit her cul-de-sac, giving her the ability to have tremendously strong (squirting) orgasms. I am not saying that this would be the same for all women, but in the case of my current lover, she definitely appreciates the extra length. And even 1/4 of an Inch can make a difference. On the opposite end, back when I was in my twenties (when I was around 6.75 inches in length , a few of the girls found my penis too long....So I guess, it really all depends on how your lover is built and what turns her o. And regarding ideal Girth. When I started out, I was 5 inches in Girth. A very respectable Girth to be sure, and definitely sufficient to give most women women satisfaction. However, when I was in my 'heyday', back in my twenties, my 6+ Inch gave a "wow" factor that definitely enhanced the sex physically and psychologically. My current 7.5 Inch Girth (base) is basically guaranteed to be the thickest a woman has ever experienced. My present lover loves it, but (again) she is rather an exception., I really don't know how other women would react to it. I am guessing some women would have the " I just hit the jackpot) reaction, while others might just shake their heads and say "no way". Anyway... This is just my 2 cents.... Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1288256744](#1288256744) - **[Want\_More](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1740545-want-more.html "View Want_More's Profile")** - [![Want_More's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1740545-want-more.html "View Want_More's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1740545-want-more.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 25 - Thanks: 0 - - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1740545) . Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1288257513](#1288257513) - **[Bigben](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1930204-bigben.html "View Bigben's Profile")** - [![Bigben's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1930204-bigben.html "View Bigben's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1930204-bigben.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 241 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1930204) Age is no problem but the Elist implant is. I would not get PMMA unless you have it removed first. And why do that if you are not having trouble ? 9 inches Girth wouldn't you look very out of proportion in terms of length. what if she could easily accommodate that size, would you feel unsatisfied and a need to reach 10 inches.. No offense intended but I think the problem has nothing to do with you or your wife physical characteristics and more to do with your internal beliefs. Most women are obsessed with their own body image and have little concern for their partners penis unless they have ED problems. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1288246508](#1288246508) - **[Want\_More](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1740545-want-more.html "View Want_More's Profile")** - [![Want_More's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1740545-want-more.html "View Want_More's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1740545-want-more.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 25 - Thanks: 0 - - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1740545) . Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1288269804](#1288269804) - **[Bigben](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1930204-bigben.html "View Bigben's Profile")** - [![Bigben's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1930204-bigben.html "View Bigben's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1930204-bigben.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 241 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1930204) PMMA requires healthy tissue and blood supply to encapsulate the plexiglass beads. The silicone implant is not compatible. 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Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1277506552](#1277506552) - **[Sizemic](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715817-sizemic.html "View Sizemic's Profile")** - [![Sizemic's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715817-sizemic.html "View Sizemic's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1715817-sizemic.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 460 - Thanks: 0 - - - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1715817) @jlmb especially if they also escort on the side. One big D will put them out of commission for the day likely. I have had friends with benefits who told me they are always sore the next morning. Even after 2 or 3 months of being FWB. Mind you FWB sex is still not "loving sex" Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vZ2VuZXJhbC1waGFsbG9wbGFzdHktZGlzY3Vzc2lvbi1hcmNoaXZlLzYyODA5OTUtaG93LWJpZy1zaG91bGQtd2UtZ28taG9uZXN0bHkuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0xJnN0YXJ0PTQ1) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How BIG should we go? Honestly... 13 years 4 months ago [\#1290176505](#1290176505) - **Dr Oates** - ![Dr Oates's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg) - Pending Email Verification - ![Pending Email Verification](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank2.gif) - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2182304) Yeah this is the truth. Many of us are warped and think that we need 7in Girth. I also got denied sex 2 times, straight up, not even an attempt was allowed and I'm 6.5in mid shaft. It's like they have already tried the big one and didn't like it. The ones I did have sex with, all complained and didn't really enjoy it except 2 girls. So since my last procedure, I have had 2 out of 9 woman enjoyed my penis. I included the girls that denied me in the 9. I think 5.5-6 is the sweet spot. edit.. I am not an amateur in the bedroom either. I know how to warm them up and get them off before hand and all that jazz. It was just uncomfortable for them. Granted the 2 girls that enjoyed had given vaginal birth already... so there's that. However one another had given birth and she still found it uncomfortable. Looks like finding a wife is going to be a process.. 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