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description: "i been jelquing, hanging, bathmating religiously for almost a year (2 days on 1 day off) and still havent seen a single result. and on my day off i wear a well..."
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#  TOPIC: Time to bite the bullet (need advice please)

##  Time to bite the bullet (need advice please)

   5 years 7 months ago [\#1308700794](#1308700794)

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 i been jelquing, Hanging, bathmating religiously for almost a year (2 days on 1 day off) and still havent seen a single result. and on my day off i wear a well reviewed Cock ring and jelque. im about to bite the bullet and go for surgery cause i see no other options. what are the best options for length and Girth?

i appreciate any replys in advance, thank you

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##  Re: Time to bite the bullet (need advice please)

   5 years 7 months ago [\#1308700807](#1308700807)

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 There is no right one answer here, and your best bet would be to put the time in and weigh the pros &amp; cons of each type of procedure. I'm going to put an infographic together shortly with all the basic filler info, that should help (eta Jan 2021).

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##  Re: Time to bite the bullet (need advice please)

   5 years 7 months ago [\#1308700810](#1308700810)

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> Skeptical_One wrote: There is no right one answer here, and your best bet would be to put the time in and weigh the pros &amp; cons of each type of procedure. I'm going to put an infographic together shortly with all the basic filler info, that should help (circa Jan 2021).

whats the best for lenght

far as Girth i have good idea what works best after reading through hundreds of threads

sorry should of been more specific instead of talking in general

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##  Re: Time to bite the bullet (need advice please)

   5 years 7 months ago [\#1308700824](#1308700824)

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> Unhung1 wrote: > Skeptical_One wrote: There is no right one answer here, and your best bet would be to put the time in and weigh the pros &amp; cons of each type of procedure. I'm going to put an infographic together shortly with all the basic filler info, that should help (circa Jan 2021).
>
>
> whats the best for lenght
>
> far as Girth i have good idea what works best after reading through hundreds of threads
>
> sorry should of been more specific instead of talking in general

As far as length, there really is no sure fire way to acheive it. A ligament cut can really only help with Flaccid length. You may get a little Erect length but from what I've read, your Flaccid will only benefit.

Other than that, manual PE is the next option. Jelquing, stretching, using an extender/stretcher, and weight Hanging are your options. Most people will easily achieve "newbie gains" of about 1/2 to 1 Inch. You really have to be dedicated and willing to put in the time to gain more than that.

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##  Re: Time to bite the bullet (need advice please)

   5 years 6 months ago [\#1308701390](#1308701390)

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 well not much help lol is there a different forum i should be posting in for advice on this?

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##  Re: Time to bite the bullet (need advice please)

   5 years 6 months ago [\#1308701401](#1308701401)

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 It seems like manual PE has given guys better results for lengthening. What is FEL and FEG? Flaccid Erect length and Flaccid Erect Girth? Lol

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##  Re: Time to bite the bullet (need advice please)

   5 years 6 months ago [\#1308701403](#1308701403)

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 lol full Erect i wish it was Flaccid heh

i think my goals of adding length dont seem realistic but adding some Girth with PMMA is very realistic so its still something to look forward to.

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##  Re: Time to bite the bullet (need advice please)

   5 years 6 months ago [\#1308701428](#1308701428)

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 [ @Unhung1](https://j4.phalloboards.info/forum/profile/6452834-unhung1.html) I would stop with the jelqing. It does nothing. Focus on stretches to elongate your penis. You have use your hands, hang, or use a traction stretcher. Girth is very hard to achieve with manual PE.

My personal goal is manual PE for length, then get PMMA for girth. There’s thunders and PE gym but I personally prefer Reddit for PE advice these days. A good sub is r/ajelqforyou. Read the sidebar to all the newbie routines for length and girth exercises

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